Hey. Ok so theres this guy I like a lot. I would do anything for him if he needed it. But after Homecoming im not sure if I need to just keep it strictly friendly between us, or keep it going. The first problem was that he took another girl. Shes a threat because shes a cheerleader and hes a ball player. Plus he made it a point to tell me he brought one and that she was in the "bathroom". THEN, I told him that he looked nice that night, and I was expecting a so do you but I didnt get it. THEN he called me a Sophmore! I mean, I am one but Im very mature and he only called me that because I showed up early! These things only bothered me a little. BUT the thing is that, while I was talking to him, I just got this friendly vibe. The thing is though, when we talk, all the signs are there! hes smiling Im smiling, I even put my hand on his shoulder and he didnt mind. And theres always the great eye contact. Whats going on? HELP!? Anything you think about this will be taken!??!?!? ANYTHING!
2006-10-02 02:32:56 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well you can not expect him to compliment you just because you complimented him, if you were sincere in telling him he looked nice then nothing should be expected in return. If he was trying to play you he would not have told you that he had a date in the bathroom, he was straightforward and honest and deserves credit for that. If you are a sophomore then him just pointing out the obvious should not really be a problem and nothing further should be read into it. It sounds like he is a typical normal high school guy. He wants to be friends with you and if he smiles and makes contact with you then he obviously respects you, that is a good thing and you should be glad to be his friend because all great relationships start out as friends first, if anything further develops great but if not at least you have friendship.
2006-10-02 02:50:19 · answer #1 · answered by confusedpatricia 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
To be honest he doesnt sound very nice but you obviously like him. So try asking him for a cofee or something and see how that goes but let him know you like him. On the flip side he could just be using you for the attention!!!! if he knows you like him and hes done nothing about it then put an end to it yourself. As far as the cheerleader thing goes he could be trying to make you jealous or trying to make you see he isnt interested either way you have to find out.
2006-10-02 09:44:47 · answer #2 · answered by spunkster12 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that your spending to much time worring about a guy who If he wanted you would of taken you to homecoming, If a guy knows you like him and does not return the same feelings he will still send mixed signals because it gives him the big head to lead you on . Dont be desprate for a player you deserve better.
2006-10-02 10:00:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Listen to yourself...go back and reread what you have written. He brought someone else....that means he didn't want to bring you....he also cracked on you that you were a sophmore...meaning he wouldn't date a sophmore....stop projecting some kind of relationship with him...if you just got a friendly vibe then thats what it is. He's going after the cheerleader....stop the stalking and wishfull thinking.
2006-10-02 09:38:00 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Keep it as friends until he makes the first move. You can't tell where he is and if you are such good friends, you don't want that to be ruined, so wait for him. And, in the mean time, flirt with other guys that will make him jealous, then maybe he will make his move. But, don't wait around for ever, if in a month he still hasn't made a move, move on.
2006-10-02 09:45:31 · answer #5 · answered by Sexy Love 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
The relationship stands on shaky ground.
If he truly were interested he would have had you on his arm for homecoming and nobody else. He is obviously interested in other women. My suggestion is to find someone that is just interested in you.
2006-10-02 09:37:24 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like to me if you don't want to wonder what is up with you guys ask him if he is interested in you . All he can say is yes or no & then you know not to waste your time & find you a new hotty.
2006-10-02 09:38:26 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to forget about this guy. It sounds to me like he is just interested in being a friend.
2006-10-02 09:37:48 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi there.. i know u having a hard time now. i think that he is using u my dear, dont simply trust someone so fast. and we must not be too confident.. be patient, get to know him more so u will be sure bout him. as i can say based on your story, i dont think that he admire you.. he treat you as his friend where he can ask help and stuff.. if he really admire you, why he didnt ask you out? besides,he ask that monkey girl? think girl..
2006-10-02 10:15:01 · answer #9 · answered by rluvy 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
he is just a guy, a guy will flirt at you if he knows you like him, some guys will just see what u will do, or maybe he just being himself i think you r getting the wrong impression, because you like him. It doesn't mean he likes you, why don't just ask him if he is inlove with you or tell him you like him and to get over with it. plain and simple.
2006-10-02 09:43:21 · answer #10 · answered by sure_whatever_29 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋