what is the best way to justify an abortion?

Question

my wife wont stop crying

(brick method)

Answer 1

Say, "I got drunk on Saturday night and answered a question, and I don't remember what happened after that."

Answer 2

Your wifes crying is very normal sweety,she's not a killer and neither are you! it's a hormone thing,her body was just pregnant..now it's not. It takes a couple months for the chemicals in the brian to normalize. Abortion is a very personal choice and whatever your reasons for getting one are your personal reason,not to be judged by us here...You need to be understanding and cry with her. tell her to let it all out. I've had an abortion almost 10 years ago now....I was only 19 ..I'm older now have lived and become educated I have three children now..would I ever take back what I did 10 years ago..nope I would not be where I am at right now. Your justification comes from the reason she had the abortion in the first place....another great idea when I grew up and started getting tattoos that repreasent my children, I got one for the 'baby' that I never had...something small that reminds of that chapter in my life..I have a small red rose with a fairy baby sleeping inside on my shoulder blade.
Stay strong!

Answer 3

If it was her own choice then she must have had her own reason, that reason is the only way to justify it.
If it was mostly your choice then it will be a problem and it will stand in between you always.
Nothing wrong with abortions, after all a woman is losing an egg every month, so in a certain way she has an abortion every month, its not a baby, not even a human, its still just some cells without any mind or contentness.
The psychical problem is that it could become a baby, but so could every menstruation.
Its only in the mind, but how to talk about it when a woman would like to have a baby.

Answer 4

it really depends on why she did it. I was pregnant and at 12 weeks the baby's heart beat kept going down to the point where they asked if I wanted to abort the baby or carry it and have a stillbirth. That was rough. I cried for months, even though I had no choice because the baby was dying. It was a little easier for me because when I got to the gyno the heart had stopped completely and the baby was already gone.. I was basically just doing a cleaning at that point. But I don't know how long I would have cried for knowing there was still a heartbeat. You just need to reassure her she made the right decision (even if she didn't for those of you who like to judge) and let her know you are there for her. She'll probably yell at you and say you don't understand- which you don't- but just be patient and hang in there.

Answer 5

Well, these people are extremely harsh. Remember no one here has the right to judge your decision. I am sure you explored other avenues, and at the end of the day this is the option you chose. It will take time, but you and your wife will move on. ALL people I know personally who have had abortions have later believed to have made the best decision for themselves. Good luck, and don't let the idiots here bother you.

Answer 6

It is only a child that you are killing. They only kill it with a knife. It isn't like the child can feel the pain. Oh wait, they can. It is only a life. You only destroyed somebodies future. I hope you can see the sarcasm. DON'T YOU DARE TRY TO JUSTIFY AN ABORTION!!! There are so many couples that cannot have children that are waiting for them. Thousands of other families were will to love the child. You should have loved it enough to let it live.

Answer 7

If shes had one, then let her cry, her hormones are adjusting adding to the sorrow she feels. Contrary to what you hear, women are aware they are ending the potential child and grieve it.
They are also able to go one with their lives and in time come to see that the reason they had one in the first place was valid and gave them a chance to improve their marriages, or education, or chances for happiness in life.
Unless you have walked in her shoes, calling her names as some of these posters have done is incredibly insensitive and callous.

Answer 8

There is no way to justify an abortion Its a life choice you both can start again when she is ready

Answer 9

I will leave my personal opinions out of this. I don't belive you have to justify it to anyone it's your personal matter no one elses. If you are trying to justify it to make your wife feel better, the only thing i can say is try to understand her and let her go through her emotions on her own time. Talk to her, comfort her. Don't push your feelings on her.

Answer 10

I wonder if cats can do abortion, would they do it, if they don't want their baby?......I don't know the reasons of your abortion, if you want to comfort her, just look deeply in your reasons of killing your baby it will help, and let her cry on your shoulder, *then both of you sending apologise to your baby, and promise yourself that you would never done this again. From now trying to be kinder and more generous, get rid of your selfishness as much as you could..'you only have one life to work on earth' start to love your parent more. :-)

Answer 11

The ONLY way to justify abortion in my mind is if there is either something seriously wrong with the child or if the pregnancy threatens the mother's life...other than that, have the child and give it up for adoption if you don't want it. There are FAR too many people out there that want children and cannot have them...

"Guns don't kill people: abortion clinics kill people"