A man has been going out with a woman for 5 years, he works away 5 days a week and returns home at weekends. At weekends they dont spean much time together he is always with mates etc. A couple of months ago he slept with someone else of whom he is still in contact with and arranging another get together. Does he love her? oR is it a case of he loves her but he is not "in" love with her?
2006-10-02 02:22:24 · 27 answers · asked by Kyra 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Shes still going out with him because she doesnt know
2006-10-02 02:33:50 · update #1
he obviously doesn't love her or care about her. She is wasting her life waiting around for him all the time...she needs to get rid!!
2006-10-02 02:23:56 · answer #1 · answered by Chazza xx Baby born 7/11/09 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
He doesn't love her coz he wouldn't put her through this. He's afraid of letting go in case this other person turns out to be a right ***** and there will be no turning back. He wants is cake and eat it but one day will choose between you both, don't let it get that far kick him onto touch.
2006-10-02 10:04:37 · answer #2 · answered by number1biatch 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Thats not much of a relationship.
The man is using the first woman for a place to stay at weekends. No more and no less.
are you the other woman in this? If so I would seriously consider what you are doing, dont trust him one bit!
2006-10-02 09:24:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry it doesn't sound like he does love her. If he did he would make more of an effort at the weekends and not sleep with other people.
2006-10-02 09:32:38 · answer #4 · answered by Tudor B 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No he doesn't love her this past weekend I had my boyfriend cheat on me with my ex bestfriend. When guys cheat on you no they don't love you. I just think when thats the case they just want to have sex. If that man went home on the weekends and spent time with her it would be diffrent. An don't let no man cheat on you tell them to hit the highway
2006-10-02 09:26:11 · answer #5 · answered by short_babe123 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
We don't know these people and probably don't care to, so how the hell can we answer this, really? These questions are dumb. I'm sure the sitiuation is a lot more complex than you little mind can wrap around. Don't ask this here. If it's not your relationship, mind your own business.
2006-10-02 09:24:23 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Poor lady...he has no care for her otherwise he wouldn't intentionally hurt her. She needs to find out what kind of man she is married to so she can move on to someone who genuinely cares for her and wants the best for her.
2006-10-02 10:02:15 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
He does not love her, nor is he in love with her. After five years, the relationship should be further along (marriage?!) and he would not have slept with someone else. How is this relationship beneficial to her? She needs to move on.
2006-10-02 09:25:52 · answer #8 · answered by Le_Roche 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
he could love her but not want to be faithful to her... since she sits at home waiting for him 5 out of the 7 days a week he juss assumes that she will always be there regardless of what happens
2006-10-02 09:24:06 · answer #9 · answered by Nena 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Sorry if it's you... however that's not love. If you love someone then you respect them. If my man slept around and didnt spend time with me then both the love and respect has broken down.
She's best off without him.
2006-10-02 09:25:47 · answer #10 · answered by DemonicaB 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
to me it would be a case of get away from him. He certainatly does not love her, anyone who loved someone would not subject them to that pain and there is plenty of men that would give her the time of day
2006-10-02 09:24:46 · answer #11 · answered by sassielassie 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋