I hate my little sister she is getting away with everything, sice she has just come up to seinor school she thinks she's the bees knees, then whenever she does something i get the blame please help.
2006-10-02 02:01:28 · 35 answers · asked by xxbethxx 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
Steal her boyfriend.... You will get in trouble for doing it anyway!
2006-10-02 02:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by shughes2000_2000 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Someone on here said that this always happens with older siblings. That's not always the case; I'm the younger of two girls and it's always been me who's got the blame for everything, while my older sister has always got away with murder. So I have an idea of how you're feeling. BTW, ignore those people on here who've told you "tough" or "grow up" - they're the ones who need to grow up and get a clue. It's not tough, you're not being childish and it isn't fair that you should be treated this way.
2006-10-03 08:00:16 · answer #2 · answered by chemical_sister_2000 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
have to say that is the reality of having siblings. i'm stuck in the middle and i get the blame from both! so can u imagine?
do u have a close connection with her in the first place? if it is a no,than maybe that is why thinghs turn out this way.Maybe you should talk thinghs out with her and take some responsibility in handling this matter. You muz not let her get onto you.After all u are the older sister so in wise as much as she wants you to get into trouble she has to bear in mind that u will forever be her older sister.Try to explain this to your parents if matters get worse.
Hope this helps~
All the best~ :)
2006-10-02 02:10:14 · answer #3 · answered by cutevina 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I was in the exact same position as you are in now.
Your sister is trying to cause trouble on purpose because she knows she will get away and you will take the blame. She is not being considerate with you while you as the older sister is very understanding towards her. She is not being fair with you. If you talk to her, she will not understand nor will she change. So all you do is wait until one day she decide to change herself.
2006-10-02 02:13:31 · answer #4 · answered by youngwoman 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You gotta Just have a quiet Chat With a Parent/Carer/Teacher
And you Gotta Tell them That shes doing everything you get the Blame for Because it is Just unfair.
It worked For me when i was Younger.
2006-10-02 02:03:54 · answer #5 · answered by Pat M 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure how to fix how you are feeling but i can tell you that i'm 42 and i have a sister who is 44 and we do not even speak at this point in our lives. i wish that we had fixed the problem when we were young like you. maybe you should sit down and talk to her and tell her how you feel and that you'd like to fix the problem between us. being a teenager is very difficult. it's full of self doubt and your sis is probably trying to make you miserable so that she will feel better about her self.
2006-10-02 02:04:50 · answer #6 · answered by notyours 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
its called being the elder sister. i am the eldest of 6 so i went through it 5 times and if she is the youngest then your mum will always look at her as her baby and not a young girl that she is growing into. try and stay out of her way if thats un-a-voided then make sure you are in view of your mums eyes (on the sly) atleast then your parents can see for them selfs that she is not innocent.
2006-10-02 02:11:45 · answer #7 · answered by shayney boy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That happens with older children. Your parents expect you to be a role model to your younger sister so your have to go by the rules. She will get away with things you won't be able to. Like it or not it always happens to older siblings.
2006-10-02 02:04:16 · answer #8 · answered by faybe 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
keep out of the way of her as much as you can and try to earn your parents respect by helping around the house without being asked. I have just advised my kids mate the same thing and it is starting to work as the parents are now realising what a stroppy mardy child the older one is now and things are getting better
2006-10-02 08:55:38 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is wrong to hate so do not say you hate her she just makes you real mad, she is the best friend you have, I just have to keep telling myself that!!! Well all I can say is try to be really nice to here her and see what happens, I did the same things when I was real young... So just be nice as you can and see what happens!!
2006-10-02 02:32:35 · answer #10 · answered by Wolf Apple 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
sorry to say but u need to stop this attitude because the world is alot harder then your sister
you shouldn't care wot she gets away with just start thinking of your self make your own life better forget her
sounds alot like jealousy
2006-10-02 02:06:13 · answer #11 · answered by flowerpot 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋