How do you personally guard your heart, yet give & recieve love fully at the same time?
2006-10-02 01:40:31 · 15 answers · asked by The Heart Doctor 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Odessa:
I am with you. We can all learn a great deal from an honest person that will say what's in their heart.
2006-10-02 01:56:13 · update #1
Cheryl K:
Yes, I know exactly what you mean. Never give up on love.
2006-10-02 02:16:21 · update #2
Dublin guy:
Yes, we all have such a vest. Unfortunately, it repels love as well as bullets.
2006-10-02 02:18:33 · update #3
Tracey E:
I promise you that it will. Don't stop believing in the power of love.
2006-10-02 02:20:19 · update #4
Nahimana:
You certainly do not appear to be a fool, and many have found a liberating romance in such a manner.
2006-10-02 02:22:06 · update #5
Demosthenes:
Thank you for you great answer, and I would be happy to answer your qustion, as well. I can assure you that it is better to have loved. Anyone who has experienced a great love can tell you the pain of rejection is almost beyond endurance.
Yet, the memories of that love are sufficiant reward to outweigh the pain. Yes, I have loved and lost, and I can assure you I will love again, regardless of the cost.
2006-10-02 05:22:12 · update #6
Ah my friend the doctor....I am a great fan of your work, and have a question of my own Id like you to answer, not to distant from some of yours, but first for your question. Truthfully every rose has its thorn, and barbs of lost loves may peirce your heart, loving fully can often lead to loss such as this. However I believe it is worth the risk, for sometimes you can sucessfully find love without hurting yourself or the other in the end. Even so, some say it is better to have loved and lost than to never have loved at all. That is true for some....but what do you think?
2006-10-02 04:08:08 · answer #1 · answered by Demosthenes 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a hard one. How to give your feelings fully while at the same time fearing that you wont get the same emotions in return? I think the answer is picking someone who you know to be emotional the same as you. This may involve a lot of searching and questioning on your part but in the end the results of picking the correct partner far outweigh the time spent in the search. As always Love is only good when it is returned in kind so keep looking no matter how long it takes. Also avoid one night stands as they are usually only good for one night and a person who is highly emotional will get hurt more easily by these random encounters as they may expect more from the other person than the other person is willing to give. You don't want to get stuck in a bad relationship because of the fact that you don't want to hurt the others feelings. Monogamy is best until you feel the right connection.
2006-10-02 01:54:55 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You have to give love to receive love, if you put any barrier around your heart you in turn will repel love, not attract it. Remember it is better to have loved and lost, than never to have loved at all. So just be aware, look for signs, read the situation and don't be taken for a ride.
2006-10-02 02:01:14 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why this is a question only a fool would fall for.
The best way is to find a willing soul on the internet and have a mind blowing relationship with that is 700 miles away.
2006-10-02 01:56:13 · answer #4 · answered by ₦âħí»€G 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A tender hearted person does not usually guard there heart to much. They usually put it out there every day and try to help people. There are a lot of times that they get disappointed, and occasionally they really do help and that makes it worth the effort.
but, at the end of the day, they can sleep well knowing that they tried
2006-10-02 01:47:30 · answer #5 · answered by Joy 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You get hurt a lot. I wish I could toughen up a little bit and not be so tender and easily hurt. It's not that I want to be a cold hearted b*tch but I just wish I knew how to be a little more hard.... you know what I mean? I'm tired of being hurt all the time.
2006-10-02 02:06:24 · answer #6 · answered by Cheryl K 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:16:52 · answer #7 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is so hard. After being burned so bad, you just pull yourslef back and be more hesitant in this world... It takes a lot to trust and actually love again. But without doing that you have to belive and trust that one day everything will fall into place for you>
2006-10-02 01:44:48 · answer #8 · answered by TME 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd really like to know the answer to this question ...so I am going to be checking back lol to see what others say ..maybe I can learn something ..sorry about not having an answer
2006-10-02 01:45:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
it is not possible to be truely and fully loved while guarding your heart, you just have to live day by day and except the little bits and pieces you do get. it is a hard world to live in but i get buy.
2006-10-02 01:43:31 · answer #10 · answered by seilygirl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋