My grandparents were ten years apart and I'm dating someone 12 yrs younger than me. I'm 28 and she's 16. Her parent's are fine with it and we have an agreement that we won't be having sex until we are married and I do not want to break that agreement. But what do you think?
2006-10-02 01:32:16 · 19 answers · asked by osunumberonefan 5 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Well... she is 16 but i am in the same situation my fiancee is 28 and i love him 2 death he is my world SCREW all the people on here who thinks its disgusting...cuz its not you are not making a mistake BUT... she might wanna hang around w/ her guy friends every once in awhile and u will need 2 trust her and respect her for that matter...
I bet your GF is really nice 2 u and tries 2 treat u as well as she can well i hope u like my answer and NO!!! its not disgusting what u r doing!!!
GOOD LUCK
I hope u 2 have a happy life 2gether
PEACE!
2006-10-02 13:44:20 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
dude you have issues 16? she is just a kid... sex or no sex that's not right. Some people would say you have an illness, sick in the head. All i can tell you is when your 45 and she is only 33 she will not look at you the same. hell by time she turns 21 she is gonna wanta know what she is missing because gr amps here wont feel like hanging at the bar till 3 am You having sex with a 16 year old is illegal and just plain disgusting. Get help before you do something bad
2006-10-02 01:42:55 · answer #2 · answered by highrange101 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It's a little weird for me because the girl is 16. What's wrong with someone who is considered and adult that's just 18. Why do you even what a girl this age? There's alot of questions I have regarding this situation but if her parents are truly OK with their daughter dating a 28 year old man then what can I say. More power to you.
2006-10-02 01:40:40 · answer #3 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That's a little steep for me. You are 28 and she is 16? Wow. I have to be totally honest with you. If you have to ask this question, then yes she is too young. She is still not mature enough to handle the type of relationship you are looking for. If you care about her then let her go and explore being a teenage girl. You have lived your life and probably ready to settle down. By you being in this type of relationship with her NOW may backfire later on in life. She may be acting like a 28 year old now but when she turns 28 and you are 40, she will begin to act like a 16 year old because she never got the chance to grow up. I can't see her Dad being okay with this relationship because he can't be much older than you. Think about what you are doing and then do what you know you need to do. Again, if you needed to ask this question, then you already are having reservations about this situation and if you are, then you need to end it. I know that it won't be easy for her or you but you know it is the right thing to do. Stay strong, and DO THE RIGHT THING!!!! Let her grow up.
2006-10-02 01:39:49 · answer #4 · answered by ga_gyrl91 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well i dont think there's anything wrong with that though many people would disagree. As long as your both mature about your relationship and don't let things get too far then it's cool. The fact that her 'rents are fine with it is like totally awsome how lucky are you 2 lolz. She's pretty young so dont get too protective of her or get really jealous if she starts hanging around with boys her own age and dont't get too attached unless you two are really serious because maybe one day she'll want to be with someone her own age, or you might want to date someone your own age etc. This is coming from someone who dated an older guy didnt end well.. oh well hope it goes well with you 2
2006-10-02 01:41:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think your age gap is a factor that must be taken into consideration. The girl is still in high school and you are a grown adult. To be perfectly honest with you you are just asking for trouble since she is still a minor. Even though no sex till marriage. At age 16 how can she even fathom wether or not she will marry you?
2006-10-02 01:35:39 · answer #6 · answered by Mike 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
At 16 we should be dating & seeing what kind of different people are in the world. What are you going to do when she grows up & see's that she really wants to be with her friends & hang out like she should be doing now?I think maybe you should check her out when she's in her 20's & has lived a little . You could be setting yourself up fopr a heart break.
2006-10-02 01:37:47 · answer #7 · answered by "karma" 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you have the maturity level of a 16 year old. Do the little girl a favor and get a dog. Maybe you could try to love that first.
2006-10-02 06:10:17 · answer #8 · answered by Sue 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Age doesn't really matter too me. I'm 25 and would date a guy probably up to fifty. When it comes to dating someone who isn't 18 yet , well that's sort of iffy. If you are both OK with your arangement, well, go for it but don't forget how young she is and possibly immature. She will most likely change when she gets older.
2006-10-02 01:36:50 · answer #9 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I am a girl and I am dating someone who is 13 years older than me. My uncle is 10 years married to his 20 years younger than him wife. I have a friend who is happily and i mean happily married to his high school teacher before... Hope this makes you feel better...
2006-10-02 01:42:20 · answer #10 · answered by sweetangel_theresa 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋