i really like this guy and he seems to like me alot (were going out)but all these girls like him and they are all made at me for dating him. what if he is a player should i trust him?
2006-10-02 01:31:00 · 23 answers · asked by halgee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Of course you can trust him girlfriend. Tell him that you trust him and that it is up to him to make the decision if he wants to play. If he plays you make sure that he understands you perfectly when you tell him that he can't come back to you again. Talk to him about it and tell him how you feel. I spoke to my bf and he assured me that it is me that he wants to be with and that he would not make a decision to screw things up for us. So, talk to him and be honest. I am sure that he will understand and will support you all the way. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-02 01:40:02 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I do not really agree..... Building down believe is an excessively fundamental trouble for me. Because as soon as believe has been shattered, the connection is ended too. So, earlier than I permit this believe being destroyed, I compare cautiously all parameters, all situations, all possibilities. I don't finish relationships simply in seconds. I provide credit score, I take my time. Not an excessive amount of besides!!! But, I check out... And whilst eventually I finish that there's no wish, that the individual isn't risk-free, I stroll out the connection without a guilt in any respect, no tough emotions. Because I understand I have given all of the possibilities feasible and so they proved fallacious....
2016-08-29 09:19:18 · answer #2 · answered by stults 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't sabotage what could be a good thing. Just because girls are attracted to him doesn't mean he's going to fool around. Plenty of guys are capable of saying " No, sorry i have a girlfried"
If your insecure talk to him about it but don't stay silent and let your insecurities eat away at your relationship.
if he does turn out to be a player then all that proves is that he's a knob and didn't deserve your trust to begin with.
2006-10-02 01:39:38 · answer #3 · answered by Alyeria 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
OMG i could really answer this for u because i had the same thing with this ok ya my friends were mad at me for going out with this guy and really i thought they didn't want us together because last year i went with him and we got together again this year and i broke up with him last year becuz he waz cheatin on me and so i took him back and as soon as i entered the classroom someone said do u go wit him i said yea and then a boy shouted he cheatin on u and they just found out that i went wit him so how they goin know so then i got this feeling that people didn't want us going out and they would come to me sayin he cheatin on u y u go wit him he ugly watever and then i found out that he was cheatin on me for the second time! so i would say to u go wat ur heart tells u if u trust him then u trust him if u dont then u dont! and if u dont trust him tell him dont hide it. and if the girls are mad at u because u go wit him is becuz they wanna go wit him that's y their mad u kinda answered ur on question there but dont even get into the girls are mad at u thing becuz they just want yo man! so the only thing u should be worrying about is if u trust him alot ur realtionship cant go anywhere if ya'll cant trust each other so tell him and ask if he trust u!
2006-10-02 01:41:38 · answer #4 · answered by courtcourt 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you are dating him and all the other girls are mad at you for it then just tell them to get over it . It's called jealousy. He chose you and not them for a reason. Go with the flow and get to know him alot better that's how you can determine whether or not to trust him. It comes with time.
2006-10-02 01:35:43 · answer #5 · answered by MommaMia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think that you should take time to know him. trust him untill he gives you reason no to. There is no need deciding that the man is a player just because all the other women who want him are mad at you.
2006-10-02 01:35:11 · answer #6 · answered by fareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont give all your trust,it still best to know the person really well before trusting him,not because you like him and he likes you.
2006-10-02 01:36:23 · answer #7 · answered by AmandaNikolah 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you may of just started going out. He might be a player so be careful
2006-10-02 01:34:36 · answer #8 · answered by osunumberonefan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are with him and you trust him then don't listen to other people. if he is a good guy then he won't play you. if he does knock him out and then find someone better for you. but if you think he won't then you should trust him. follow your heart. it's happen to me before. So i know how you feel.
2006-10-02 01:36:12 · answer #9 · answered by Crystal S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You first need to start off by trusting "yourself". If all these girls are mad at you, then it must be a jealous thing. I have a feeling, he'll get around to them too later on.
2006-10-02 01:35:14 · answer #10 · answered by peggin_beast 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋