Feeling a bit down...?
A good friend of mine who I'm sure liked me, used to text me a lot and call every so often has suddenly gone very quiet. I miss his texts etc. but I'm not sure if I should get in touch because I'm worried that he has gone off me. We were supposed to meet up last weekend but I had to pull out of it even that I didn't want to and I apologised. Since he's gone rather... weird. What shall I do?
I think he knows that I'm rather keen on him...
Well I e-mailed him this morning and he seems to have ignored me completely. What now?
2006-10-02 00:46:25 · 17 answers · asked by little_friend 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would give it about a week, see if your silence doesn't prompt him to contact you again. You may've hurt his feelings by not going with him. He's now wanting you to, for lack of a better word, crawl back. Let him contact you now . . .
2006-10-02 00:49:13 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know how you feel, honestly I do, I mean since me and my ex girlfriend have broken up awhile ago, things were never the same, I used to always talk to her all the time, but she just started to stop talking to me little by little, now she e-mails me a few days at a time. With no established pattern. But well my best advice is to let him be. I mean you bailed out on him for that thing you were supposed to do last weekend, so maybe you hurt his feelings because of that, and gave him the wrong message. But well just let him cool down, I know you really like this guy as a friend, but well friends never stay mad forever, so he'll come back. Just have to wait and be patient, besides that just move on with your life, there are millions of people out ther,e don't ever let one person make your whole life a deep tradegy.
2006-10-02 00:51:39 · answer #2 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A mans ego is like a glass marble. Drop it and it will break into a million peices. What you need to do is 'coat' this marble in rubber, by sending him a really sweet text, how you really care for him, and you wonder if there is a problem, as it would hurt you so much if there was, he's such an amazing friend etc etc. Once this is done, you will find that this now rubber coated ball will bounce back ;-)
2006-10-02 00:54:58 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you have your answer. Just keep quiet now and let him make the next move. Don't brood over it and get on with your life.
Sounds like he is testing you or trying to control you or even punishing you for canceling that weekend.
2006-10-02 00:53:54 · answer #4 · answered by Precious Gem 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Give him some time, he may think you pulled out for a different reason. Let it go for a week or so, then do something nice for him, some little thing like helping out or buying him a coffee or something, and see how it goes. Don't push it, guys don't like that.
2006-10-02 00:51:44 · answer #5 · answered by anna 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
This is easy, It is easy to ignore an e-mail, or a text message, it is not so easy to ignore someone face to face. Meet up with him, and ask him face to face what is going on!
2006-10-02 00:55:01 · answer #6 · answered by Joy 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i like getting playing cards particularly if the sender has written some thing particular fairly of a undeniable previous chuffed Birthday! also the printed words say alot about what the sender thinks of u. I Looove playing cards and that i continually deliver them.
2016-12-04 03:13:57 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you have emailed him this morning, then just leave it now. You have made it clear that you are still interested in him. If you contact him any more it will seem a little desperate. I know it is frustrating, but if he is interested then he will contact you.
2006-10-02 00:50:04 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Its possible that his feelings or pride has been hurt, guys who really like you take rejection rather hard, so ignoring you is what he is doing, its like punishing you for hurting him.
2006-10-02 00:48:44 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn the situation around and ask yourself how would you feel? It must have been hard if he like you and you knocked him back....
Is it really him you miss or the attention?
2006-10-02 00:50:56 · answer #10 · answered by Updowndizzy 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋