is sex is more needed in life or love or self understanding is needed
2006-10-02 00:18:30 · 24 answers · asked by mahima b 1 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Parenting
A good bit of both would be just fine.
2006-10-02 00:20:48 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
From your name I presume you are an Indian. From the tone of your question I again presume that yours was an arranged marriage.
Since I do not know about the background or the level of orthodoxy that your present family adheres to, I find it rather difficult to give you an absolute answer.
However, I shall say this much. You have used a word that should be used as the foundation stone of your married life, viz. "UNDERSTANDING". This has to be a two way street in your life. Both your husband and you will have to learn to adjust and adapt to each others habits and oddities. If you can, the time to start is immediately. You must talk to each other and try and understand each others expectancies, likes, dislikes and foibles.
Once the understanding is established, the word like comes into play. You learn to genuinely like each other. Once the liking makes each of you indispensable to each other, then and only then does love come into the picture.
Sex is an integral part of married life, but is not the ULTIMATE and ONLY part.
I wish you luck and a happily married life. May God Bless the Two of You.
2006-10-02 10:23:00 · answer #2 · answered by robin d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, i can say both are needed, but depend on which kind of family u belong. In most case some men or women may prefered sex to love in another case vice versa it depend on the family
2006-10-02 08:06:26 · answer #3 · answered by An Exponent 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think there should b understanding between both.
both should b satisfied, but not by forcing but by love n understanding.
it a bond of life forever. it is not only for sex or just for love u get married, there r lots of things in in....
both the partners should b wiling to lovew or to have sex than only the marriage will last for long, otherwise there can b conflict ... between one another...
2006-10-02 07:42:57 · answer #4 · answered by uptown girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
married life is a combination of both
but there is different ways of showing how much you love someone its not just about sex
2006-10-02 07:24:30 · answer #5 · answered by lizella 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Marriage needs a lot of love and a lot of sex to survive. You can love and have a wonderful marriage..but sex is sooo good..and it relieves a lot of stresses and helps keep the 'love alive'.
2006-10-02 08:11:44 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
sex is mode of love. but in married life more of love is needed than sex because marriage is mode of understanding and emotional balance.
2006-10-03 13:22:34 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Life is useless with out love and sex without love is meaning less. if both of u love each other than you wll enjoy having sex.
2006-10-02 07:34:21 · answer #8 · answered by ADEEL SHEIKH 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi ! in married life we need to understand each others feelings n emotions. sex is not only way fr a successful one. love not only means sex. but to help n support each other in there sorrows......
trust is needed !
astalivista baby!
2006-10-02 07:41:05 · answer #9 · answered by nicky 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sex is also love. Just have more sex and love comes from heaven.
2006-10-02 11:17:08 · answer #10 · answered by miralce 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hay it is not needed for all sex & love.
Love come from the heart of man , woman.
when they love then they do Sex.
& when Sex is done then the Sex is olny way to express they Love.
& also it is depand on man& woman.what they want. Sex or love.
2006-10-02 11:52:49 · answer #11 · answered by shorewalas 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋