Conversation wise, that is....let's say she is well-groomed, not bad looking, but, what subjects in conversation either make, or break the relationship in the beginning for a guy?
2006-10-02 00:14:52 · 13 answers · asked by foxy country girl 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Intelligent, well spoken English (or whatever the language is) is a definite. I mean, i come from Asia and it turns me off when i hear a typical 'Yeah lohh !' or 'haiyo...' come out from even a beautiful girl.
As for the topics being discussed, lets admit it, we dont necessarily want the grand topics that get you so worked up but then dies down. I like a girl where conversations flow and flow and in the end you dont even remember what the 'main' topic was anymore. :) We could have talked about food and suddenly ended up talking about pillows for all i know.
2006-10-02 00:29:39 · answer #1 · answered by Dabidu 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well, ... :)
Turn ons; A girl that laughs, interacts with male conversation, is interested in the male, and I also think that you dont need to be cool and calm on the date. A girl that acts natural, even nervous (anything) can be good, shows that your only human! Also someone who keeps a little about theirself secret..... mysteries are sexy. Talk about current thing, here and now, not what you have achieved.
Turn off; someone too calm, talks about herself constantly, and someone who thinks their too good for the other person. Also if its a blind date, dont talk about how crazy it is and how stupid you were to agree. I hate that personally, well did!
Good luck with your date hun X
2006-10-02 00:34:49 · answer #2 · answered by A_Funky_Chicken 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Does he understand that's merely an casual courting? i imagine you're more beneficial positive off unmarried in case you do not see a destiny with him. He would nicely be in love with you and also you do not even understand it. Stringing him alongside would nicely be complicated for you both the longer this is going on. I say stay unmarried and locate someone you could quite see a destiny with.
2016-10-16 03:10:06 · answer #3 · answered by catharine 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Turn-on: Funny, happy in her skin, has interesting views, experience to call on
Turn-off: Self obsessed, self-hating, continually defensive or contrary
Subjects to avoid: politics/religion (too heavy for that soon and liable to be contentious), ex boyfriends (every guy HATES the idea that the girl he likes has had someone else inside her, they'll ignore if you let them), work (if it's negative)
2006-10-02 00:31:46 · answer #4 · answered by Dirty_Idea 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
make: subtle sexual anecdotes mixed with sexual touches of the hands & face but not too much though to keep the suspense. Never talking about work or personal acheivements
break: yapper, boaster, basically cant stop talking about herself & the things she owns or has done in life. total turnoff
2006-10-02 00:19:39 · answer #5 · answered by Claude 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whether directed at him or other people that you interact with on a date , rudeness meaness, and being argumnetive or belittling for no reason.
2006-10-02 00:21:22 · answer #6 · answered by bolounit1 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I can't stand a air head. She has to have some thing going on between her ears. I don't like pushy women and women that try to tell me what to do. Bossy 'BIG turnoff.
2006-10-02 00:24:34 · answer #7 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Discussing in detail the size and colour of her stretch marks.
2006-10-02 00:21:39 · answer #8 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Ask him about himself. Be honest with him.
2006-10-02 00:26:14 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
if she is a good conversationalist thats a turn on, if she is dumb forget it
2006-10-02 00:17:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋