how can you separate out the two? Surely 'gay sex' is the outward expression of an integral aspect of a Lesbian, Gay or Bisexual person?
2006-10-02 00:14:43 · 16 answers · asked by tysonian22 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
The outward expression is definitely an expression of internal aspects.
I do not think that homosexuality is a sin, but all actions is an outward expression of an internal attitude etc. Soemone who does a good deed , does it because of his attitudes, beliefs etc. The same is true with someone who does bad deeds. Whether it is telling a white lie or killing another.
2006-10-02 00:21:03 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Without getting too drawn into the specifics of gays etc. (I have always had the opinion that whatever two concenting adults do to eachother in thier own private moments are their own god damn business anyway, but I digress)
I dont think it can be done. For better or worse, people are defined in a large part by the things they do, the decisions they make and what they were before and what they become as the result. Being gay isnt like trying on a new coat. It is an expression of emotion and lust within a same sex contect... in short, it is a lot more than the physical act that is taking place.
Just like shaking my penis after I take a wee isnt masturbating, the sin of gayness, as some might say it is, is a lot more than the physical act because it is what is behind the action, the intention, the motivation and so on. (a disgusting comparison I know, but it captures the point so beautifully).
2006-10-02 01:15:09 · answer #2 · answered by Caffeine Fiend 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That would suggest that "gay sex" is a sin. And it's not. It is very much possible to love someone who is a sinner. Surely everyone who has sex for pleasure is a sinner as sex was meant for the creation of life (not just gay people as your title suggests). Surely all women are sinners and evil as it was Eve, not Adam who took the first bite of the apple when it was forbidden/sinful to do so. Im sure that if I kept going I could make almost anyone out to be a sinner. Life is short and precious why do people feel the need to waste it worrying about other people's sins (or lack thereof)? You will be judged on your life and not of that of your neighbour
2006-10-02 00:22:20 · answer #3 · answered by MGN2006 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You can't separate out the two, because there isn't two.
This is what a lot a Christians say about LGB people because they think that being gay is something that someone wants to be, but having 'gay sex' is wrong. So they love the gay person but condemn them if they practise 'gay sex'.
As a gay Christian I have found this out the hard way and have already answered this on the question 'Are homosexual desires temptations from Satan?'
Being gay is NOT a sin see
http://www.soulforce.org/article/homosexuality-bible-gay-christian
for further information
2006-10-02 00:34:54 · answer #4 · answered by THOMAS S 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
We are all sinners, and sex is as much an outward expression for heterosexuals as well as homosexuals. God intended us to have one partner for life (i.e., marriage). Outside of this it is "falling short" of God's ideal for us and so, in that way, is sin (a sin I myself have committed. I am now celibate). But God is forgiving and, as long as we turn our back on our past life and are loyal to Him and His plan for us, we will do just fine, whatever our history.
2006-10-02 04:00:54 · answer #5 · answered by waycyber 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If we based our love on each other because of sin in our lives, nobody would love anyone! We are all sinners....no difference to God between a "little" sin, or a "big" sin.....a sin is a sin, is a sin. First recognize that we are all guilty of sin in God's eyes & He ha tes sin... we are human, not perfect. Once you recognize that you are a sinner, but that God & others love you anyway, it should make it easier to love others....let God do the judging on the sin in other's lives. Not our job! Love ye one another!
2006-10-02 00:23:47 · answer #6 · answered by foxy country girl 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You love the person but hate what they do. You have to kinda ignore your feelings about them and just act nicely towards them. And if you consider gayness a sin (some cultures don't these days) Then you should try to gently lead them from the path they walk.
2006-10-02 12:39:37 · answer #7 · answered by Cosmodious 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Christ said judge not lest ye be judged. Anyone who makes moral judgements on the lifestyle of Gays and Lesbians better not have any skeletons in their own cupboard or karma will come down on them like a tonne of bricks.
2006-10-02 00:44:14 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
"Love the sinner, hate the sin" <<== LAME
love isnt a slogan
love is DEMONSTRATED
besides, same-sex attraction is normal for a small minority of the population, in ALL species... including us.
its always been that way ... always will be
best thing to do is learn to get along with your neighbors ... cuz theyre NOT going away
2006-10-02 00:22:45 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
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2016-11-25 22:10:56 · answer #10 · answered by ? 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋