This guy has lead me on twice now and now i need to know from u guys how to get back at him and the problem is i see him everyday...
2006-10-02 00:14:16 · 26 answers · asked by Nicole 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
bug him all the time
2006-10-02 00:23:19 · answer #1 · answered by bonzi_751 1 · 1⤊ 1⤋
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2016-05-07 21:08:49 · answer #2 · answered by ? 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Although getting back at him would be fun for you and you would feel that you have won through revenge, I just don't think it is a good idea. If you live your life with revenge then you will live your life with hate inside you. (Ok I am off my soap box now.)
I don't believe dressing sexy and ignoreing him is completely revenge (getting back) but I think that would be your best option. This type of "getting back" would be the most classy.
I don't know what the other person means when they say dress sexy. I think dressing sexy should be in a classy way.
Keep in mind dressing sexy may egg him on to hit on you. This is when you stand your ground and tell him your done with his little childish games.
I wouldn't spread silly rumors like he has herpies or gave you herpies as someone else said on here. That makes you look bad and childish.
Good luck to you
2006-10-02 00:25:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Best thing to is dress incredibly sex and take a guy and a girl out on the same date and make sure he sees all of you having a really hot time. Don't keep your hands off each other the whole time....kiss a lot and caress each other's body and thatt will show him what he missed out on. It's a great turn on for guys when their girl is a little wild and edgy especially with other girls. So...he'll sincerely regret what he did and will be wishing "that could have been me". Ask your friends to play along so..it's safe and comfortable for u.
2006-10-02 01:17:15 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Good answers so far but sounds like you need to do something completely stupid. Wait till he leaves work at lunch and send in a good looking guy to make a "breaking up with a gay lover" scene. Oh yeah, and as he's leaving tell his coworkers to let him know his now "ex-lover" is hiv +. He won't know what hit him when he comes back from lunch!
2006-10-02 00:24:04 · answer #5 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best revenge to get at a person is to move on with your life and let them see that you can move on without them and especially just be yourself, be that happy go lucky self and hang out with your friends and just have fun being by yourself thats when he may realise what he has stood up and then you have the upper hand to with what you want to do.
2006-10-02 00:22:08 · answer #6 · answered by Debbie B 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just act happy especially in front of him so he doesn't see what he did upset you. This usually gets to someone like that better then anything else you could do. Think of this as a learning experience. He did it twice to you so don't fall into that trap again. Good luck to you.
2006-10-02 00:28:25 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well, you should attack his pride. I'm sure he thinks he can lead you anytime he wants. If you see him everyday, ignore him. Make him feel like there are a million other important things than him. That would make him realize what he did.
2006-10-02 00:18:23 · answer #8 · answered by gqjatt209 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Living well is the best revenge...that's what my mom always told me. Seriously though, I have found it to be true that when you try to get back at people it tends to blow up in your face. If he knew you were spending your time thinking about getting back at him that would give him an ego boost. Best to spend time thinking about something nice to do for yourself, that would be much more productive.
2006-10-02 00:23:57 · answer #9 · answered by mary will tell you 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Revenge isn`t something you want to do, what I would do in your position is get a new boyfriend and ur ex will see you with him and that ur happy and that he lost someone very special and he will regret it for the rest of his life
2006-10-02 00:21:30 · answer #10 · answered by dragonredjoburg 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The fact that you want to get back at him means that you are not ready to have him as your ex. You want him back. So stop seeking revenge and talk things out, and if he dont want you anymore, then plain and simple. Stay away.
2006-10-02 00:22:46 · answer #11 · answered by fareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋