the 1st time he came to quick seriously minute man,2nd time it hurt he wasn't close and we were both tired,what can i do on my end to make the 3rd time better
2006-10-02 00:06:23 · 23 answers · asked by cookiesssssssssss 3 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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2006-10-02 00:07:36 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop trying so hard to have sex, it just spoils the experience. Just relax, keep off sex for some time and let it come naturally. Meet at a time when you have both had enough rest and are well fed and see what happens. Sex is not a must at every meeting... and holding off sex can make some beautiful foreplay.
2006-10-02 07:17:08 · answer #2 · answered by fareen 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing to do is keep at it. If you have to ask this question again after the 100th time then you've got a problem. First time is always fast, he's been trying to get to that point his whole life, years of mental foreplay. Second time YOU were prob. thinking about the first time and not focused. Stop thinking about it and just enjoy it. Try this each time you get together try to find one more thing that he like for you to do and that you like him to to do to you. Experiment, test boundries, new positions. Enjoy! Aspire!
2006-10-02 07:15:21 · answer #3 · answered by barkel76 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You clearly like the bloke/bird who you are having sex with otherwise you would just go out and find someone else. If you care about them that much then you MUST talk about it. You cannot have a great relationship without great sex so the best thing to do is find out what you both like. Unless of course he/she thinks its great in which case you must then tell him/her that they are not doing it for you.
2006-10-02 07:13:03 · answer #4 · answered by Paul 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You need to try and experiment. You become better, with experience. There need be no inhibition, in the act of trial and experimentation. This kind of trial and experimentation is in itself something which adds cement to the relationship, which in turn will further improves the quality of the relationship. Good luck.
2006-10-02 07:09:51 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Foreplay
2006-10-02 07:18:37 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Try doing a mood, music, romance, massage kind of thing and don't let it get too fast and furious for you. If he gets carried away, tell him in a sexy voice to slow down and make it special. If that doesn't work, tie him up and take control of the pace and purpose. If he still fails your needs -- look elsewhere because no one is sexy if they only please themselves.
2006-10-02 07:12:16 · answer #7 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You are taking meds that will affect sex on your end. Get off the meds and take it slow and easy the next time you are close. kissing, teasing, touching.
2006-10-03 19:41:06 · answer #8 · answered by 55 and trying 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
1st time is often a miss due to emotions, tension and nervousness.
You need to talk openly about it, what he likes, you like...if its hard, try writing. It is important for him to know that he pleases you...most men are proud of their "achievements" so ask him...to slow down and show him how to speed you up....you know your body best, teach him...dont expect him to know.
2006-10-02 07:29:32 · answer #9 · answered by inlove 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ninety percent of sex is foreplay. Be inventive. There are gels and books on early ejaculation. Read one. Be seductive.
2006-10-02 07:13:08 · answer #10 · answered by Cal 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Relax be patient' practice makes perfect. Talk to each other. You will find the way.
2006-10-02 07:19:07 · answer #11 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋