should i give someone a second cahnce after my boyfriend broke my heart do i give him a second chance and should i beleave in second chances?
2006-10-01 23:52:35 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
go for it
2006-10-01 23:54:39 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I personally believe in second chances - - but, not in third or fourth ones. Has he ever hurt you before? Is he really sorry, missing you, wanting to love you? If so, it's worth the risk, because it's always so hard when we weren't ready for something to end and we knew there was more that needed to be done or said. Give it a try and we'll hope he knows how to appreciate you this time. If he doesn't, then he didn't deserve you to begin with. Good Luck!!!
2006-10-02 06:59:57 · answer #2 · answered by Justin W 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Well people make mistakes and always deserve another chance, but well it's up to you. My girlfriend gave me a second chance, and well I did very best to be the best boyfriend ever to her, but it didn't prevent her from still feeling hurt and scared because of what I did. So well honestly you can give it a shot and see what happens, but well it all depends on what happens when you do give him that second chance, in my case it didn't work out well, because she began to lose interest in me, and our relationship, enough that she forced it to be that we are really really distant friends. But it was my fault that things ended up to be this way, and I haven't lost her completely, so I'm still happy that she e-mails me once a blue moon. But well at this point I'd say give it a shot with your boyfriend, I'm sure he'll be just like me and do the very best to make it up to you, in fear that you will still not trust him or be ok with what he did to have to get this second chance.
2006-10-02 08:20:04 · answer #3 · answered by Khalil S 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
There arent a lot of details to go on here, but more often than not, when someone breaks your heart they will just do it again in the long run. It is your decision to make, but I wouldnt recommend it. Move on and find a guy who truly knows how to treat you right.
2006-10-02 07:06:49 · answer #4 · answered by rxtech05 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It depends on what he did? Did he cheat on you? If not, yes, give him a second chance....however, take it slow...feel out the relationship, before you jump in with both feet.
2006-10-02 06:58:01 · answer #5 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what you decide to believe will always be up to you. and if you are asking the question then you are already considering it..
well as far second chances once you give it then i am sure youll know if you will give it the next time around.
2006-10-02 06:59:40 · answer #6 · answered by concrete water 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I gave a BF a scond chance and he just broke my heart again, worse than the first time. I would not recommed it, but you still have to make up your own mind.
2006-10-02 06:56:05 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
it will depend on the kind of love u share with him. its a tough situation, but if u think that he loves u really, then give that person a second chance! wish u luck! remember, true love wins!
2006-10-02 07:05:51 · answer #8 · answered by komal d 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Usually, the answer is no. However, if this is a very long term relationship (like several years long), you may be able to get back together knowing the relationship has problems and fix them together. However, if your relationship was short lived (like weeks or months long), then no, it probably isn't worth it.
2006-10-02 06:57:17 · answer #9 · answered by T.G. 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Depends on what he did i mean if you are willing to forgive and forget then why not but if you will dwell on the past you will only bring back the hurt
2006-10-02 06:56:26 · answer #10 · answered by chunkybaby 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If you really care.. then do give him a chance.. But, make sure, he doesn't start taking you for granted
2006-10-02 06:59:12 · answer #11 · answered by Angellic 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋