Guys: what do you value in a women? I am quite tall (5'11", dark hair, fair/freckly skin, reasonably toned figure, and I'm fairly intelligent). So, when seeking out a man, I need some advice. So, OK, I'm not petite, blonde & curvy, so I need to focus on other things to attract the opposite sex. Some advice pleeeassssee!!!
2006-10-01 23:38:21 · 16 answers · asked by ( . ) ( . ) 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No, I'm not fat, about 12 stone.
2006-10-01 23:42:46 · update #1
Well, I would be a bit reluctant to date you because you are 3" or so taller than me and heavier (although that is to be expected for such a height difference). But I am sure you can attract men anyway because there are many out there closer to your height. If you treat men well and are kind, optimistic, and thoughtful, I think you will find that many men will be willing to be with you (even some of the average-sized ones like me). Now, I suggest you stop waiting for men to come up to you and ask you out. You will need to pick out some likely candidates for dating, and then make some sort of approach to let them know that you are interested in them. For example, chat with them and ask them out a couple of times. I think you have a lot of work ahead of you, so be patient. Good luck!
2006-10-01 23:57:31 · answer #1 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I'm in the minority amongst my peers, other guys, I prefer a smart woman I can talk with, of course the first impression of someone is always something about them or their appearance, for me I'd have to say I notice how a girl carries herself, but as for a body part, I'd have to say eyes are what I notice first and foremost.
2006-10-02 02:27:19 · answer #2 · answered by John H 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask yourself how many types of men are there out there in the universe. do yourself a favour, define what kind of men you are looking for first, then decide how you should behave to attract such a guy.
havent u heard of this saying "one man's meat is one man's poison?" so get a hold of yourself, in fact just being yourself will get you a fair share of men.
get started...find out what kind of men you are most attracted to and make a list. it works, becos thats how my wife found me. :)
2006-10-01 23:45:49 · answer #3 · answered by maximus 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Aye. Dress to show off. I have a tall female friend (5' 11" to be exact) and she looks lovely whenever she puts a ribbon in her hair.
2006-10-01 23:43:01 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Laugh as lot, find things that guys do interesting and be VERY submissive sexually. Loads of eye contact and do not nag...hey sorry that was the perfect woman xx give it ago
2006-10-01 23:45:28 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
omg i think im in love
if u wear glasses remove them
if u have an aroangy look to ur freckles wear sum
blue jenas n a shirt with sum summ.... um
like an orange shirt
but make sure its ur kinda orange
2006-10-01 23:49:14 · answer #6 · answered by pina_cojo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
That's an easy one, dress to impress! Wear clothes that show off what you have, guys will notice.
2006-10-01 23:41:35 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
well .. I have to see a picture for u dear ..
but above of all .. its not only about how u look like from out side ..
its your personality .. and u spirit .. those r very important things for me in a lady to be with.
you can send me your picture if u like
2006-10-01 23:44:44 · answer #8 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u sound very nice to me clever does it for me a nice figure cant c u having any problems babe if u dont mind how old are u
Steve xx
2006-10-01 23:51:58 · answer #9 · answered by stephen d 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You seem just my type. I like big women. I am 6"1'
2006-10-01 23:47:35 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋