I am so in love with this guy and of course he knows it. I am shy but he is twice as shy. I almost certain that he likes me because he looks at me and smiles all the time. When his friends ask him how I am and tease him he says completely nothing. (There's more as well) Anyway cutting a long story short how can i really get things happening between us? My confidence has really boosted since everyone found out and I am willing to make this work. Please give sensible answers. Thankyou!!!!
2006-10-01 23:26:50 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
well since he is twice as shy than you, maybe by not waiting for him, why dont you ask him out for a date, or send him acard that says you like him, maybe you think it might be a waste of time because you both already know that you both are in for each other but this relationship needs to get started seriously somehow rigth?and byt sneding a card you can make sure he really likes you, since you have said you are only almost certain that he likes you, but if you really like him go for it, send him flowers a box of chocolates, why not? you like him dont you? ask him out for a burger, lucnh dinner and if youre pretty confident that he likes you, just give him a tender kiss on the cheek, you must understand he is shy, although shy iam sure even now he might be thinking a way to get closer to you wihtout blushing hard and embarassing himself, maybe that is what he is affraid of that he might embarasse himself in front of you, now since your confidence is boosted its time for you to boost his confidence and to let him know you love him just the same and you'll be with him tell him, hold his hand and smile, you might be suprised,
2006-10-01 23:38:05 · answer #1 · answered by Rivern 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Talk to the guy, of course! He's probably even more shy than usual because he likes you. Talk to him, ask him out, etc, etc. It is really that simple. He probably has confidence issues too, and you can probably make him feel better by talking to him. I that if you do those things, you will get the ball rolling with ease. Good luck!
2006-10-02 06:33:59 · answer #2 · answered by anonymous 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'd love to answer your question but I've been in the SAME scenario and in my case nothing happened... I never had a solution for that problem:p I wish guys would be bolder in those situations, it's their job anyway to court and woe us girls ;)
2006-10-02 06:32:31 · answer #3 · answered by gameplan_xtreme 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like both of u are introvert and i jus think someone needs to start. it would be a good idea if u'd start it coz u say hez more shy than u. best of luck hun.
2006-10-02 07:39:57 · answer #4 · answered by $~~BrOKeN~~$ 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He won't approach you since he's shy. guess you have to make the first steps. Communicate through letters. it's more romantic, confidential and you can say more through it. It's the best method for shy people.
2006-10-02 06:31:20 · answer #5 · answered by Saphire 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you think you should meet with him, the simple idea is to tell him and ask if that sounds good to him. You could instead greet him or ask how he is.
2006-10-02 06:32:18 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How old are you?
Talk to him, make eye contact more. Invite him to parties. The list is endless.
2006-10-02 06:29:25 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
try to ask a friend to tell him your feelings for him and its ok for u if he like to talk to u ..
this way u told him what u want but not face to face and u will wait for his next move
2006-10-02 06:33:02 · answer #8 · answered by mazen71j 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
u have no solution baby, u need to sort out an action plan
2006-10-02 06:33:25 · answer #9 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dont worry the shyness goes away when you get to know each other better
2006-10-02 06:28:52 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋