if your best friend is seeing somebody that you know who has a girl friend and you have an idea who the girlfriend is (cause you know her sister ) what advice would you give your best friend to rather stay away or maybe to continue and he will leave his girlfriend eventually.? i really dont want my best friend to get caught up this web of deceit
2006-10-01 23:25:39 · 24 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if i were you, i would tell everything i know to my best friend. then let her decide what to do. i wouldn't give her any advice but valuable information.
2006-10-01 23:47:17 · answer #1 · answered by ayakofeminine 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I don't understand why men are so touchy just for not asking for their opinion!?! There are lots of men who ask questions and ask for WOMENS answers. Should we get all touchy for that?
You should tell your friend that the guy has a GF. If she doesn't know already she deserves to know. It isn't fair to break up someone elses relationship just because you want them yourselves. But you don't need to give her any advice, she can decide what to do about it then. I would have told her so she knew at least.
2006-10-02 08:28:07 · answer #2 · answered by Magnuna 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
So what makes it a "web of deceit"? The fact that a guy who is free to date whomever he wishes to date does so? If there is no committed relationship, no "strings" then he can date 50 girls at the same time if he wants to. That's why it's called "dating", and not Marriage or engagement...there is nothing wrong with having friends.
2006-10-02 06:28:48 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think that if you any sort of friend you would tell her the truth. Just tell her plain and simple - because what would be worse, her going out with a cheating dude and you having a guily consience all the time, or telling her and avoiding something messy while having a clear conscience.
2006-10-02 06:29:50 · answer #4 · answered by feusha 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Did you ever think that ignoring opinion of fifty percent of the population might be a warning sign that there are more serious problems there than what your talking about. Communication and honesty are pillars of why I have been married for over twenty three years. I think the idea of not trusting someones opinion because....sic....your a girl is sad...very very sad.
2006-10-02 06:32:38 · answer #5 · answered by koalatcomics 7 · 2⤊ 1⤋
If your best friend is aware that the guy she is seeing is double-timing her, she should not need any advice. It should be clear to her that he is a waste of space and a waste of her time.
2006-10-02 06:30:06 · answer #6 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Just tell your best friend what it is that's bugging you. If your best friend doesn't listen, there's nothing you can do.
2006-10-02 08:50:36 · answer #7 · answered by gummy 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
tell your bestfriend to know the guy first. or give her a warning. show and tell her how concern you are for her. tell her that you dont want her to be hurted. tell her the truth instead of doing nothing...
2006-10-02 06:29:26 · answer #8 · answered by moirah 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
well imma a guy but imma answer this lets see..........
u should tell ur best freind that if she loves him n thinks its worth it she should try to waiting n to keep tryin cus u neva know it might be worth the risk
2006-10-02 06:31:32 · answer #9 · answered by pina_cojo 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Don't tell her anything- Ask her a question, ? Did you know that ----- is also seeing, so and so- leave it at that.
2006-10-04 18:37:38 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋