I go out with this lady friend a few times already. The last time I go out, we sat on the beach and I ask her what kind of person did you want to meet of your relationship? She reply, a funny, know some sport skills and caring. I told her what I think as well. And I ask her did anyone in school ask her out. She told me yes. A guy at school and a guy at work place. But I ask her how long did you stay that relationship for. She said a month. Also she told me that because at the start, they all very nice, but after a few weeks, they don’t care anymore. So they broke up.
Soon she said that, in my heart, I knew myself I could be better than that. I don’t have a good look, may not be a funny person but I like sport, and I know how to care about people but I just never get a real chance to show them.
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2006-10-01 23:13:39 · 10 answers · asked by chansam 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
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So she ask me who do I like in school, I told her the first person is Jane (one of my best friend, but we both know we are in relationship, we are just friends). So I move on, the second person is “you”. A silence felt suddenly. I told her that I would like to try. So we move on but I can’t get a clear answer from her.
I like her is not because she is good looking outside. I like her is because her has a character, personalties. I am really like to know her deeper and explore the inside of her attractive heart.
2006-10-01 23:15:32 · update #1
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I do want to try. When I am with her, I have a feeling of comfort. Therefore I would like her to have a same feeling as me. I know that it is ok she said “No” to me. But I am just not sure. She is one of my best friend. Last of all, if I do ask her when I get back to school. Should I play and sing a song to her to show her how much I like her??? Below is what I am thinking: which one?
Guy Sebastian-Taller, Stronger, better
McCartney-Beautiful Soul
Guy Sebastian - Angels Brought Me Here
Finally, what should I do? Should I talk to her friend (she is one of my best friend as well) and ask her to discover for me? Or when I get back to school I go and talk to her and I go straight and ask her clearly do she want to give me and herself a change for a relationship.
Please help me everyone, I need your advice. I need to get this done no later than the first week back. I always worry. I can’t sleep well until this problem is solved. I love her.
2006-10-01 23:17:24 · update #2
She just blew you off, mate. It's the "nice" way that women say no.
2006-10-01 23:16:09 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Okay, this was definitely a mouthfull. I would suggest that you go up and talk to her about how you feel. Tell her that you are genuine in your feelings and that you are willing to give the two of you guys a try if she is willing to. Also be sure to tell her that she is not obligated or pressured into liking you just because you like her. If she just wants to remain friends then you are okay with that. She must feel that she can talk to you and you won't get upset if she rejects you as a boyfriend but can accept you as a friend. Be sure to respect her feelings and her opions. Best of luck amigo.
2006-10-01 23:22:23 · answer #2 · answered by Rock Angel 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey I believe you should act cool...like her response doesn't bother you. Flirt with another girl so she wonders what she is missing out on & she might make a effort to get back your attention then you will know your in like flynn.
2006-10-02 01:46:33 · answer #3 · answered by Stoosha 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Oh my goodness, if you don't know that in a situation like that, you don't name her second, you are way too immature for a relationship.
2006-10-01 23:17:41 · answer #4 · answered by Liz 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are not the one.
2006-10-01 23:15:20 · answer #5 · answered by profit0004 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm not sure what your question is but you basically said you like another girl more than you like her.
2006-10-01 23:17:59 · answer #6 · answered by Robert B 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She's not interested....and by the way, if you yap as much in person as you did in the question...it is no wonder!
2006-10-01 23:17:51 · answer #7 · answered by BITE ME 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell her u love her
2006-10-01 23:19:43 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
ask a different way
2006-10-01 23:20:52 · answer #9 · answered by pina_cojo 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
what is there to read
2006-10-01 23:15:54 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋