We have been together for 1 year, he has a friend (male going through divorce) that has moved in with him and we have had problems with this before, we split up for 3 months and he then begged me to come back, he now thinks we should have another break and I must think what I really want and he feels the same. Is it over or should I be patient and see what happens........ I do really love him and I know he loves me...
2006-10-01 23:12:33 · 18 answers · asked by dee 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I think you should develop some respect for yourself and move on with your life. Do not let love blind you so much that you fail to see that you are dealing with someone who has no vision for life. If you are a responsible, respectable, reasonable and resourceful person then you will realize that you two really have very little in common. He is using you and will continue to do so for a good while to come if you do not take a stand.
2006-10-01 23:21:45 · answer #1 · answered by sexonsight 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
How much longer do you want to waste on this guy? Times a tickin' girl. Move on. This guy has no true regard for you much less love. You're just a comfortable habit for him. Jerking you around (on again off again) should tell you everything you need to know but don't want to admit. Find someone that has the same goals and values that you do. This guy's a user. Dump him pronto and let him know this time it's over.
2006-10-02 06:29:18 · answer #2 · answered by anon_y_muse 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if his friend is going through a divorce, they way he (the bloke getting divorced) MIGHT be feeling of being free etc it might be rubbing off on your bloke. and now they wanna go out together and just have a good time, maybe to cheer his friend up.
I think you should just ask him honey, he deserves to give you an explination, dont argue about it, just say i need to know why all of a sudden you want "another" break, is it something to do with me so i can work on it. i aint saying its you im just saying, say that and it will show him how much you care for him,....hopefully!! :o) xXx
2006-10-02 06:23:42 · answer #3 · answered by Fader's Girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It sounds like this 50 year man needs some growing up to do. His "buddy" moves in and now he wants a break. You're too beautiful to be doing this to yourself. Go out there and find yourself a "real man".
2006-10-02 06:45:39 · answer #4 · answered by Aine14 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Doesn't sound like the guy loves you, honey. Why would he want a 'break' if he was in love with you? I'm thinking...what is he hiding??? Something is "up" with this guy. I would kick him to the curb and leave him alone. Waiting will only prolong the reality that he's eventually going to leave you and he's hiding something from you. Get real and give yourself a 'break" from him permanently! Godloveya!
2006-10-02 06:18:05 · answer #5 · answered by Sassy OLD Broad 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Don't have a 50 year old boyfriend in the first place.
2006-10-02 06:14:25 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Impossible things can happen if you make a 50 yr old man your boyfriend.You can have a break or break up!
2006-10-02 06:33:23 · answer #7 · answered by openpsychy 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
take the break and if the situation doesn't feel good then maybe it's time time to move on. I'd rather be alone than living in turmoil. Good luck sounds like you need it.
2006-10-02 06:25:07 · answer #8 · answered by plane nut 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I bet he is spooked. Talk to him about it. You might find out that he loves you but you scare him. At his age most guys are set in there ways and any thing that might change it' They run from it.
2006-10-02 06:22:02 · answer #9 · answered by Sarcastic Sid 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe he just isn't ready for full time commitment, just wait for a little while and see what happens. Don't wait forever.
2006-10-02 06:23:10 · answer #10 · answered by doglady 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋