Well my girlfriend and me have been dating on and off. This last time we talk and she wanted a baby so i was ok we can have one. But then she was all quiet so i asked whats wrong and she told me nothing that they just going to look cute like me so i thought ok. Then next i dont get a call or txt for like a month *we both leave like 200miles apart* so i was ok but then i saw her and asked her why hasnt she replied to my e mails and txt. She didnt say anything but then e mails me after i get off. I havent opened it yet but i really want to but can so ladies what have i dont wrong and do i open the e mail???
2006-10-01 21:00:56 · 14 answers · asked by kYLE 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
something sounds funny here...a month is a long time to not contact someone that your involved with i could see if it was a few days...but a month thats not good...you need to tell your girlfriend to come clean of what ever it is that she's hiding... there could be a possibility that she was already pregnant but by someone else...or maybe she's planning on getting pregnant but not by you ....and yes you do need to open the email don't be afraid of what it might say cause i know thats why your holding back...all i could say is hope for the best... prepare for the worst *good luck*
2006-10-01 21:26:28 · answer #1 · answered by tanya m 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She sounds as if she has some serious mental problems. She just might have some some other guy she is interested in. She might not feel you love her. I am a woman and I will say that women are strange. Hormones and all that sort of stuff. If she does not answer your email, move on. Find someone who lives closer and would appreciate you better. Chat with other singles. Life is too short to spend it worrying about some nutcase.
2006-10-02 04:24:29 · answer #2 · answered by glenda576 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Yeah, lets have a baby, like if it was a puppy!!! A child needs a mommy and a daddy living together, not a sperm donor. I think your gf was testing you to see how serious you were about a long life commitment, and you failed the test. If you really want her to have your baby, you should consider marriage as option number one, and then think about a baby.
2006-10-02 04:10:02 · answer #3 · answered by avll 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Open the email. It sounds that maybe you would not have a strong commitment to her or willingness to assume the responsibility for rearing a child A child is not a plaything!
2006-10-02 04:07:00 · answer #4 · answered by jom 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You have been dating on and off, you live 200 miles apart, you haven't talked for a month and you are scared to open her e-mail.... seriously, do you really think you guys are ready to have kids?
2006-10-02 04:04:04 · answer #5 · answered by HP 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
"When in doubt, don't execute."
Don't do it. Or you will end up a "Yes Dear" man for as long as you are with her.
If you haven't already put your foot down from day 1, do it now before you get married. That's if you get married
2006-10-02 04:05:46 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
She sent you an email to read not to keep and collect dust and hope it turned into a priceless antique. sigh
2006-10-02 04:05:52 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
whats that smell? i think i smell fear, be brave and open the email i know you won`t like the contents its probably good news be a man come on you can do it.. lol
2006-10-02 06:29:43 · answer #8 · answered by mickylicious 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
After being treated like that I would send the email back to her UNOPENED. like you have had enough of her b s
2006-10-02 04:20:48 · answer #9 · answered by spuds_suds 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
read the mail, maybe there will be some explanation for your gf's weird behavior..
2006-10-02 04:11:12 · answer #10 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋