is it possible for a man to be faithful?

Question

in all my relationships, ive never dated a true, faithful man. i know its not me, so what is it?

Answer 1

I think its a myth honey sorry to say but the ol days are gone. Men now adays seem to say its the animal in them and that its nature or its natural. but my thing is the animals in nature have a small brain god made man with a much better brain to think of all these things. the animals dont' know any better heck they lift up there leg and pee on a tree or take a dump in the woods you dont' see our men doing that lool

So I think to much temptation out there and too much of a shmorgesboad for them to control themselves so its easier to go fishing.. it takes great control for both sexs not to cheat.

But now even women are finding out now heck men can do so can we. and you take things not as serious. its too bad. cause naturally we all would like to know we love only that one person. but the worlds changing.

you either stay the way you are and hit the roof when it happens or get with the program and do it too.

sad huh?

foot note i love the person who wrote think happy thoughts and look into the mirror and good things will come back. yeah say that the whole time while hes out screwing the secretary. but keep telling yoruself in the mirror life is good.

One word Denial!....

but hey it works for some folks they have a special arrangements or they just don't discuss it yet they know what there spouses are doing. Some women don't care they have there kids a roof over there head money well taken caref of so thats enough and they shut up, some women don't need much and rather there husbands get it someplace else as long as there not bugged... depends on what folks want and how important that part of the relationship is.

Answer 2

Is ir possible for a woman to be faithful? Women cheat too just like any man can. Women cheaters do a better job of concealing their infidelities. On the same token, men can be faithful just like a lot of women. I have been cheated on by a woman. Namely one I was going to marry 10 years ago.

This guy doesn't cheat when he is in a committed relationship. I may be guilty of flirting, but it never goes past that. I figure I am already a lucky guy. I will be a loving and devoted man in a woman's life until she do things that causes me not to anymore and forces me to leave.

Best you can do is be more scrutinizing on who you date and not be afraid to ask the tough questions. Look for signs of player potential.

Answer 3

Yes, of course it's possible. Some things that may make a man cheat are:
* fear of commitment, the feeling that this might be their last relationship (I would consider that last bit as a positive thing, but whatever)
* not being satisfied with the relationship, or conversely, feeling that the relationship is just 'too perfect' and can't last
* being too drunk to comprehend what he's doing
* if he wanted an open sexual relationship in the first place
* revenge for something the partner did/said
* to boost their ego or make their partner jealous by demonstrating that other women desire them too
* possibly others...

Answer 4

You obviously have not met the right man! because yes it is possible for men to be faithful, I've been married 22 years, and everyday is like the first.. I've been faithful for one reason, I love my wife, she has and always will be my best friend, its too bad that most men dont see love this way, and it could also be you? you say it isn't but have you ever asked any of these men why there unfaithful to you? for any man to be truthful to you, you must first be truthful to yourself.

Answer 5

HELL NO!!!!!!!! Just kidding. I'd like to think there are some people out there who still have decent morals. It's not only men, alot of the women i've dated are that way to. That's the main reason i'm still single. I was married once and im 44 now and been divorced for about 15 years and have dated plenty of women. Big trust issues for me because i've been on that road that you're talking about. Still looking and hoping to find someone to trust but if i don't at least i like myself and can be happy alone.

Answer 6

It's definitely possible for a man to be faithful. Although, even I admit, many aren't.

Cheating is a choice, and we can control our choices. So, remaining faithful is definitely something within everybody's control.

Why men cheat, is beyond me - I'll never understand it.

Answer 7

But it is you. You see what we feel about ourselves is reflected in the relationships we choose. Think loving thoughts and kindness and it will be relfected back to you. Somewhere in your mind you do not think you are worthy for a good man. Your mantra should be: I am a beautiful person inside and out...any man will be grateful to have me in his life. I am beautiful inside and out. Say this to yourself when you look in a mirror. Make this your power thought. It works. Before I forget also state that all men are good and kind.

Answer 8

It is possible. However everyone has their faults and as was mentioned earlier not only guys cheat girls do it too! I think you should have a look at what you are doing and maybe try to change your ways because if EVERY guy you have been with has cheated on you there must be something that you are doing wrong.

Answer 9

Find a guy whose passion lies outside relationships, be it his work, a cause or some hobby. Share that passion with him so you can be together. He may be less available to you but he will much more likely to be faithful.

Answer 10

When he meets the right woman!!! Men and women can be faithful if they are with the right person.