Part 2 (How can I be dumb twice) People told me I should move on and I agree but should I go to his homecoming and flirt with all his friends and completely ignore him. Or should I just let it go... let him come home for thanksgiving and find that I wont be he waiting on him
2006-10-01 20:34:01 · 18 answers · asked by cubby12 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just let him go!!!!!!!!! the long you stick around tryin to piss him off the longer its gonna take to get over it!!
2006-10-01 20:36:18 · answer #1 · answered by Jay 2 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Shake it off and let it go! Guys can sense you being present just to try to make them jealous and try to make yourself seem that much more unavailable. All that's going to do is boost his ego. Move on, without moving on...you can't really know what better options awate you. Give the backing off approach a shot and you just might surprise yourself! He'll come right back down to earth and notice you a lot more when he notices that you're not worried about him. As a matter of fact, don't worry about him!
2006-10-02 03:41:00 · answer #2 · answered by msmith4950@sbcglobal.net 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just ignore him in general If you say its over its over If you flirt with other guys after your offical breakup then if he even cared about you he would want you to be happy and he would leave you alone
But if you wait until he came home for Thanksgiving and he showed up expecting to see you and finds you with somebody new He might get angry
2006-10-02 03:43:24 · answer #3 · answered by evillynn8098 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
eih the best way to revenge is not to revenge at all.. you know just relax and don't force yourself to do something that you are not comfortable doing like flirting with his friends i think he wouldn't mind if you flirt with anybody..i think the only thing you can do is live your life...don't show him that you are so eager to get back because he will just laugh at you...trying so hard to hurt him but in fact he doesn't care...show him you're over him and that's the best revenge ever...when he feel he's not that important anymore...
2006-10-02 03:46:06 · answer #4 · answered by queen_maan 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do both. Let it go and don't let your ex boyfriend hook you like that. Move on and work on finding someone else in your life. Flirt with other guys because it suits you more than it would getting even with him. In no time you will be asking yourself, "What did I ever see him?".
2006-10-02 03:44:34 · answer #5 · answered by davester1970 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Move on your only hurting yourself with the revenge the best revenge you could take is by living well and being happy without him
2006-10-02 03:40:36 · answer #6 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear,
revenge isnt good. it wont make things better for you... just because he hurt you, that does mean you have to hurt him back. you can be bigger than that. if you dont want to go to homecoming with him, dont. just forget about him and find someone better....revenge isnt right.
2006-10-02 03:37:32 · answer #7 · answered by ryan 3 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
dear a Lady never revenges but she shows the man how clueless he is without her.
Smile be proud and show him that you worth more than what he thought.
That is even harder on him than you think.
2006-10-02 03:40:00 · answer #8 · answered by anna 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would never seek revenge
2006-10-02 04:00:37 · answer #9 · answered by tariq k 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
revenge is a dish best served cold
2006-10-02 03:49:07 · answer #10 · answered by tinkerbell 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
stop the drama...move on...if you go flirting around you could aquir some pretty nasty names for yourself...why play a game....be a big girl...move on
2006-10-02 03:36:41 · answer #11 · answered by Chocolate_Bunny 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋