i am a22 year old young man .i often think that my life has never been worth of anything.i dont have any achievements in my life.now when i see that i cant even get a girlfriend although some of my other friends are regularly dating ,i feel extremely sad and left alone.i dont look good neither do i have any quality to attract girls.sometimes i feel an urge to commit suicide. please advise.
2006-10-01 20:12:21 · 16 answers · asked by ANIRBAN B 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
you are acting ugly so people dont want to get to be your friend, wake up, you can take control of your own life, talk to your friends about it, they might be able to help you.
2006-10-01 20:15:33 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Friend ! If you ever get a chance, Read about Raja Ashok. You'll find that he dressed up like a BEGGAR to visit his kingdom and find out, What's Going On. Answer => He found lots of Administrative and Management Problems. So, dear one, Do Not Think of the Outside Looks, Develop Your Abilities. You must be Good in Something, that is why you have become a Human Being or else, you could have been a RAT. All the best in your Efforts to be Better than Before. By getting a Girlfriend, you DONOT Become GOOD. You Become GOOD by Becoming a True FRIEND.
2006-10-01 22:11:56 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Love yourself first of all.
Never mind the other people now.
They will come when you least expect it.
Find a hobby or something you like or are good at, that will give you some positive reinforcement, whether in sports, computer, collecting anything.
Enjoy what you have and look at nature around you, birds, flowers, etc.
Looks have nothing to do with it.
You can't be that unsmart if you use a PC and found this place to ask a question.
:)
2006-10-01 20:57:17 · answer #3 · answered by marcelinjapan 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Having a girlfriend is not the endall of life....There IS much more to it. Wake up..... look at the mirror and say to yourself.....you are smart. It comes from within.......Eyes speak a lot. Whatever is within you is shown on your face, be it happiness or frustration. So, keep smiling and tell yourselfthat you are a happy person;
Try this and you will feel much better b'coz there will be people around you who will notice the difference. As far as having a girl friend is concerned, have friends be it girls or boys.... then notice the difference.
Be a friend to have one......a good one;
Don;'t know if you got me, but hope you understood what i tried to say.GoodLuck!!!
2006-10-01 20:27:06 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
between the funniest became this guy who became approximately 60, he looked like a homeless guy or woman yet easily had a place to stay. He for sure had some psychological matters (yet i'm not making relaxing of that). He walked all around and looked completely happy. I observed him in a delightful's ice cream parlor sooner or later sitting on the counter. He became eating an ice cream cone, had it throughout his face, moustache, beard, and it only looked so attractive because of the fact he did not care, he became only lovin' it!
2016-10-18 08:22:48 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You are right Anirban.you are an useless piece of **** who deserves to die. If at 22, you feel that you should die because you dont have girlfriends, then I really feel you deserve to die. Life is more than having a girlfriend. Your looks are not in your hands, but you can improve by wearing the right set of clothes. You can improve the way you walk and talk. Your personality is in your hands and you can curve your own future. Study hard and choose a right and rewarding career. Try to be a nice human being, and just be yourslf.......remember someone somewhere is waiting for you.its just you have to be patient nad wait for the right time to come........
2006-10-05 19:30:58 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
1. You could TRY to change something you don't like about yourself.
2. The main thing is learning to socialize. And you can find lots of tips on the Internet... But the main idea is: show someone you're interested in their life!
3. Get involved in culture related activities and communities. To other people same interests as theirs make you look more attractive.
2006-10-01 21:27:02 · answer #7 · answered by Indre G 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
please don't do anything to hurt yourself. When people think of suicide being the best thing for everyone...it is not. You would actually be hurting all those who know you, your family and friends.
You need to sit down with a piece of paper and pencil (or pen). On one side of the paper you should write down what you like to do. First, stuff you like to do by yourself (y'know, alone time, not when you're lonely). Second, stuff you like to do with your friends, like hanging out at the movies, goofing off playing a casual game of sports, things you would do in a group.
Now, on the other side of the paper, write down what you want to CHANGE about yourself. Things that you can really change, like your haircut, the style of clothes you wear, glasses (if you wear them). Go to community college and speak to a class counselor. Take a class in something that interests you, like drawing or painting. Maybe a basic computer programming class. It doesn't matter what class you take, as long as it interests you. Sit in the front. That way the instructor will see that you are there to learn. Once you find a subject that you like, you'll see that there are others in your class that you can talk to.
I know this is getting long, but I wanted to let you know that every once in a while, everyone feels that their life is unimportant. Myself included. I been married over 20 years and sometimes you just get overwhelmed by everything going on around you. Don't let it get you down. If you need to, talk to a chuch pastor.
Sometimes we feel lost and alone.
Your life is worth living. You're just getting started, and sometimes getting started is the hardest part of living. Hang in there, trust me, lift up your head, pull back your shoulders and smile. It will all turn around for you.
Take care of yourself.
2006-10-01 20:41:38 · answer #8 · answered by Mr.Know-It-All 5 · 3⤊ 1⤋
I felt the same way untill last week. *Hugs* I just decided that I wasnt going to let life control me anymore. I have a Crush on a really hot guy, it's almost my 21st birthday, and I have two friends. Just look at the good stuff in your life. Suicide is not the answer, trust me, I know.
2006-10-01 20:20:55 · answer #9 · answered by And For A Moment I Am Happy 6 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Snap out of it matey your only 22 you got heaps of time,see a dr about your suicidel tendacys though its not good for you to thinkz like that mate.
im looking at waZZa he"s 41 not even his mum likes him he is as fereal looking as wazza says he hates everyone but has got real popular lately an the girls are startn to chill his wayz.
so its never to late,, an you could have a life in comedy by the sounds of you matey
2006-10-01 20:20:28 · answer #10 · answered by GOOCH 4 · 1⤊ 1⤋
firstly be a nice person only than u can become a nice friend n dont get depressed its nt the end of life!! aim for ur goals and become sumthing in life !! dont waste time thinking rubbish !!! u'll
got a long way to go pal!!
2006-10-02 05:45:11 · answer #11 · answered by twinky 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋