A boy in school keeps on trying to grab my boobs and my crotch area. He is a senior and I'm only a freshman. I am too embarassed to tell people but I feel really invaded. What should I do!!??
2006-10-01 19:41:32 · 10 answers · asked by IHeartSprinkles 1 in Health ➔ Other - Health
He also keeps on telling me he wants to f*ck me afterschool in the bathrooms. I never go though.
2006-10-01 19:54:55 · update #1
Don't let him do that girlfriend!!! Yell, scream, raise all kinds of noise and say NO NO NO NO NO Don't touch me there!!!!! And keep saying it over and over again at the top of your lungs. Tell teachers, principles, school counselors, your parents and any other adult with at least half and ear and an attention span. This is not your fault. It is his fault and he deserves to be punished for it. Don't feel guilty or ashamed. It is your body - not his and he doesn't have your permission to touch it so do like I say and raise a lot of noise and tell everybody. If people aren't supportive then they aren't your friends. People who care about you don't want you to feel this way. It's hard but do it and you will feel better.
2006-10-01 19:58:10 · answer #1 · answered by madamesophia1969 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should tell school authorities, despite being embarrassed. His behavior is wrong.
If you really find yourself unable to tell anyone, get yourself a big, tough boyfriend, and let him know, so he can beat up this offensive guy who grabs you.
Grabbing someone sexually like that is called BATTERY. It is a crime, just as if he punched you in the gut. Do society a favor and get him reported. If you don't curb him now, he may grow up to be a rapist, preying on women in a violent way.
2006-10-02 02:51:49 · answer #2 · answered by DinDjinn 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell someone, this is highly inappropriate. If he gets away with it in school, think about what he might try outside of school. This isn't funny. Don't feel embarassed. He should be the one to feel embarassed by his inappropriate behavior. Just think of what his parents would think if they knew he was doing this. You must address this with your guidance counselor, teacher, or school administrator right away...before it escalates into something even worse.
2006-10-02 02:48:33 · answer #3 · answered by kamischi 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have done nothing to feel embarrassed about........He is the one that needs a reality check.........Go tell one of your teachers or counselor, someone whom you feel comfortable talking with.
You need to stand up for yourself and now is good time to start. Do not give him this power over you. And that is exactly what you are doing.
2006-10-02 02:54:29 · answer #4 · answered by mysticideas 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely tell someone...a parent, counselor, principal...you can even call the police. You are a young lady and deserve to be treated like one. What he is doing amounts to assault, and he can be put in jail for it, especially given your age and his.
Don't tolerate this....stand up for yourself - you don't have to put up with it.
2006-10-02 02:55:25 · answer #5 · answered by vamedic4 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
go to ur school counsellour what hes trying to do is sexual harrassment and assualt . its wrong hes wrong and u need to stop this . understandably u feel invaded and embarrassed but that give him power take it back .
good luck !
2006-10-02 02:44:57 · answer #6 · answered by ashley 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
you need to report this.... you can do it anonymously to a counselor or even a teach.. but you need to do it... don't be scare if he continues to do this... you can file report with the local cops... and by speakingg out you are probably not only speakin out for yourself but maybe for other girls that live in silence in your school... good luck.. and please don't' be scared but get help... remember the hardest thing to do is speaking out....
2006-10-02 02:51:56 · answer #7 · answered by Crystal 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
He's totally hitting on you and thinks you like to have him touch that area.You should try to tell him your not that kind of gurl.
2006-10-02 02:47:22 · answer #8 · answered by Dani Gurl 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hunny...I know how embarrassing it can be,but you've got to tell someone if it doesn't stop. Next time he goes for a grab yell,and I mean loudly, Please Stop!
2006-10-02 02:46:58 · answer #9 · answered by bamahotT 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
kick him in the balls
2006-10-02 02:43:26 · answer #10 · answered by seriously shannon 3 · 1⤊ 2⤋