It makes me feel guilty, but it to satisfies me. Never was a druggie. Never was a drunk. Straight male. Respect all people. I know God. I love sex. I'm a taurean. Is this wrong?
2006-10-01 19:34:53 · 21 answers · asked by thedoc 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
No, it's not wrong. Sex isn't bad, as long as the people involved are consenting and of the legal age. If you're as "good" as you say, then you should be proud of yourself for having the respect for others to be thinking this way in the first place! Good on you!
2006-10-01 19:56:49 · answer #1 · answered by bougainvillaea 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
A strong sex drive is evidence of good health. Most men do "love sex a whole lot," so your fleshly desires are not abnormal. The real question you need to ask yourself is why does it make you feel guilty? If you are married, so long as it is with your spouse it shouldn't matter; God made sex pleasurable for a reason. Now if you are galavanting around and having intimate relations with a lot of diffirent people - that could be the cause of the guilt; for the sex is only for physical gratification and the "love" behind the sex is non-existant and can leave your Soul feeling empty.
Find the source of your guilt; analyze it, and you can determine why your Soul is burderned. Once you figure that out; you will be able to change either your attitude towards the issue, or curtail your behavior so that it falls within your moral boundaries.
Bottom Line: From the info you provided, no, it is not wrong.
2006-10-02 02:43:12 · answer #2 · answered by Forgiven 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm assuming here that you're not married. If you were there would be nothing wrong with your loving sex. Have all the sex you want! Enjoy it all you want. Do anything you want as long as your wife agrees and it's just between the two of you.
If you're not married then, I'm sorry, but you can't have sex. I'm assuming you knew this when you became a Christian. So then, you signed on for the "escape from hell" clause but want to continue living your life like you were still going there. Sorry, it doesn't work that way. Consecrate your life to Christ and start living the life that He wants you to live.
Then I would suggest that you start checking out the ladies in your church or wherever else you can find Godly women. Find one and marry her--but make sure that she likes sex too or you will be worse off then before. In other words, find one that you are compatible with. You don't have to jump into bed with her to figure it out. I'm sure that she will give you signs that she longs for you in a physical way. It is only natural for two people to want each other sexually--that's because God ordained the sexual union, not only for enjoyment and procreation, but to typify the union that God wants between Himself and His elect. Under the right conditions sex truly is beautiful!
2006-10-02 03:53:31 · answer #3 · answered by Ellen J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The only things that's wrong is the horrible thing religion has done to people's sexuality. how can you possibly believe you're a 'taurean' and believe in god? Well, regardless, you shouldn't feel guilty. God put all those nerve endings there and I hardly think he did it to torment you.
That's a very sick and awful god, isn't it.
2006-10-02 02:37:55 · answer #4 · answered by cassandra 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
God loves sex, too. He knows how to do it so that it doesn't hurt you or others. God describes sex in the Song of Songs, a book in the Bible...you should read it.
God simply wants you to have sex in the protection of marriage, with one beautiful woman, for the rest of your life. The best sex I've ever had was with my wedding band on, with my ex. If I'm never with another woman for the rest of my life, that will sustain me...it was that good.
Sex is something too big and too important to be done like you brush your teeth. God loves you too much to see you hurt yourself like this...I'm praying for you.
2006-10-02 02:58:14 · answer #5 · answered by stronzo5785 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
It is normal to love sex - I do too, I'm married and Christian.
Sex should motivate you to get married, and share you life with your wife. God said in Genesis 2, "It is not good for man to be alone".
The fact that we have sexual desires should motivate us to "multiply and fill the earth". Just make sure you use sex in the way that God intended, which is a way to enjoy your marriage with a wife.
Hope that helps!
2006-10-02 02:40:31 · answer #6 · answered by Alex T 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Taurus? You like sex? How normal is that?
Everybody likes sex, and some are sexually more direct than others. I wouldn't worry too much about it. Stay safe, harm none, have fun, life is for living. If you have a partner that you love, and trust....all the power to you!
2006-10-02 03:03:16 · answer #7 · answered by ? 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It could be your age based on hormones.
It could just be basic lust and you need to give of yourself by doing community support, or help to others - then you won't be thinking of sex all the time.
Try to **** in the morning then right before bed but not inbetween. Make that time a time for you to focus on other things like work, education, or helping others.
2006-10-02 02:39:39 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 1⤋
Everybody loves sex (to an extent), but you cannot let it take over your life. I would suggest taking up a new hobby that can distract you from thinking about it.
2006-10-02 02:39:31 · answer #9 · answered by ecurry16 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
"It burdens your soul"
Hm. Soul: attached to earthly flesh.
Earthly flesh: giving in to urges.
Urges: taking over reason
Reason: battling with urges.
Urges taking over earthly flesh
Earthly flesh attached to soul
Yes, yes, I see a pattern here. It's called: "The Vicious Circle" pattern, one of many you meet here on Earth.
2006-10-02 02:49:21 · answer #10 · answered by Shinigami 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋