All of my friends want me to get a boyfriend. They say that it will soften me up and make me trust other people more. But, im not that interasted in a love life. Im curious of what its like but im not ready for one.
What should I do? HELP!!!!!
2006-10-01 19:25:44 · 10 answers · asked by Dark Kat 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
gurl my mom is the same way. the truth is my heart just isnt into a relationship right now. when that "right" person comes around and gets my attention, then i will know that its time. besides that, its nothing wrong with you not being interested in a love life. when the time is right, you will know.
2006-10-01 19:29:08 · answer #1 · answered by HonestTruth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I salute for having no boyfriend as of now. To be pressured by your friends is not the trigger for you to get into it. Personal feelings are not been dictated by your friends and even friend should not rule your decisions. If youre still studying why not focus on it first. Im a guy and boys are not in scare for you to be afraid of loosing.
But never think and say that your not interested in love, because love is the greatest gift from God. Curiosity contradicts on the philisophy of Love. Reflect first into yourself before entering to it. What are your purposes in getting into it? Curiosity is not the valid reason my dear, becuase your future is at stake!
Finally if your into a relationship never be confuse between LOVE and INFATUATION. Its a different thing! Ask God's assistance and guidance He will lead you there!
2006-10-02 02:46:36 · answer #2 · answered by jhesp 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Tell your friends to leave you alone. You do not have to be in a relationship to be happy. Take your time and when you are ready then go for it.
2006-10-02 02:31:06 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
The best thing you can do is, "Stop listening to other people that say that!" Don't rush it, take your time! Listen to what your heart tells you. Not every one else! I'd go by your instincts they are true to you the only thing that matter's!
2006-10-02 02:31:45 · answer #4 · answered by hahnleticia 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't listen to your friends, listen to yourself. If you are not interested, then don't get a boyfriend. If you are curious, rent some nice romantic movies. "Sleepless in Seattle" is nice.
2006-10-02 02:28:32 · answer #5 · answered by ginger13 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Do what you feel. Nobody can make you happy until you are happy with yourself. Don't get into something just b/c your friends want you to.
2006-10-02 02:28:01 · answer #6 · answered by ibcookn04 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Just wait a little while 'til you find someone you like. Don't treat your relationships as cheap and temporary as your friends do.
Also, make new friends.
2006-10-02 02:28:00 · answer #7 · answered by sebastian 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
follow your heart everyones relationships are different, nobody really can answer that. Never settle for less than perfect.
2006-10-02 02:29:32 · answer #8 · answered by Amanda 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think u should do what "you" want to do! ur friends are not the ones who r going to have to deal with this new boyfriend you will!! if ur not ready then dont do it!
2006-10-02 02:29:33 · answer #9 · answered by Jay 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if ur not interested in a relationship then dont do it when the time comes u will choose it urself
2006-10-02 02:34:00 · answer #10 · answered by shortiluv 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋