2006-10-01 19:20:41 · 12 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Not sure what you mean about prepare for each other, but wanted you to have an opinion from the other side. Your other answers are all about if there is no marriage, there is no commitment, it won't last. I have been in a relationship for almost 3 years and neither of us want to marry. Does not mean there is no commitment, just means we have both been married before and don't feel the need to "prove" we love each other by putting on rings. the proof is how we feel about each other and how we treat each other every day. After all this time, I still think about him all the time, miss him when we're not together, and get goose bumps every time he touches me. Good luck and follow your heart, not what others think you should do.
2006-10-01 21:04:17 · answer #1 · answered by palacemistress 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
May i know y u both dun intend to marry? Is it ur age, study, career, family disagreement or personal financial problem?
Before that, r u both seriously in love? Or r u both just keeping each other warm for the moment, till a better one comes?
In my opinion, these r few important questions before u both go further in ur relationship or consider a big event like marriage.
A love relationship is like a flower, it needs to progress n mature. It need to be constantly water wt care n nourish wt commitment n trust.. Definitely it need agreement n efforts from both sides.
When the time comes, u will both mature n be able to take ur love to the next level OK ;) Until then, hope u both will continue to care n love each other...
Wish u true love...
2006-10-02 03:00:34 · answer #2 · answered by fify 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they already know they are not intending to marry, then they really have no reason to be boyfriend and girlfriend. They should stop pretending.
2006-10-02 02:24:21 · answer #3 · answered by anabasisx 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
if you know you are never going to marry then you also know that this relationship can not go on any further. there is a saying good enough to bed good enough to wed. maybe you should think seriously about your intentions towards each other. my advice move on and find someone who wants to spend the rest of their life with you it is much more fulfilling to be in a relationship where you are committed 100%. good luck you will find someone who really cares
2006-10-02 02:47:12 · answer #4 · answered by A G 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
probaly not the answer you are expecting, but yourseleves, mentally, marraige is hard work, and requires patience and consideartion , espaecially when you think one ay and the other a different one !, BUT having said that fun too, a life long partner, put trust and love and 'bend' soemtimes to keep the peace, I remember the Queen being asked what made a good marraige, answer - tolerance
2006-10-02 03:07:58 · answer #5 · answered by david g 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You should prepare to not be boyfriend and girlfriend anymore, because eventually, one of you will want to go the serious route, and the other will not.
2006-10-02 02:24:01 · answer #6 · answered by Shane M 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You might want to make more clear what you mean by "prepare for each other".
2006-10-02 02:22:27 · answer #7 · answered by PunkerThanYou 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
both of you should be clear on your position and set boundaries for your relationship. ultimately you should be prepared to loose each other because there is no commitment.
2006-10-02 02:28:14 · answer #8 · answered by son of the soil 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
A marriage-free zone!
2006-10-02 03:57:43 · answer #9 · answered by B i n g o 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
A box of tissues
2006-10-02 02:59:36 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋