Alright, here's the story.
So I met this girl one day at college. She's around 5'6", 155ish(?) and a well-rounded individual. We went to a dance in which her dormmate and one of her gay guy friends went. It was a lot of fun, and we got very close. In technical terms, she'd be my girlfriend. We now sleep together on a nightly basis.
And now the bad news. We've been at this for around 3 weeks, and I've met most of her dorm wing's floor. They are also very nice people, but one of them stands out of the rest. Hell, I think she might be 'the one' (Okay, I still believe in fairy tale love, shoot me). Of course, this has to be her best friend's dormmate, who she is also very good friends with. Currently, I'm friendly with the whole floor.
What am I supposed to do? If I dump her and try to pick this other girl up, not only will I break the yin and yang of the floor, but I may lose all my friends and cause major awkwardness. If I don't, I'll just keep thinking about her until I go mad. Help!
2006-10-01 19:08:54 · 9 answers · asked by Shane M 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just choose the one make your heart beat faster and faster everytime you're with her... remember that "anyone ca be our destiny but only one was destined to be our fate."
well i hope you can relate with this.;
You Are The One
Another day passes by, I’m dreaming’ of you,
And though I know it might be just a dream, dreams come true,
Somewhere, somehow I’ll find you even though it takes all of
My life
And when I finally do
I know inside my heart
That there could be no doubt; I knew it from the start
you are the one
That I’ve been searching for my whole life through,
you are the one that I’ve been looking for
And now that I have found you,
I’ll never let you go, I’ll hold you in my arms
You are the one
Another night spent alone
I’m lying in the dark .I don’t know your name
But I know your voice sings to my heart
A sweet melody, a symphony of love
I know that come one day
I time for you and me
To finally be together,
cause I know we’re meant to be
Forever’s a meaningless word
Even though you’re here with me
here by my side, here in my heart
2006-10-01 19:57:05 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You know what? You deserve to be shot.
You sound like you don't really deserve The One, with the kind of decadent lifestyle that you are living :P
But since this is a help board, I have to say that if you want to have a chance (but a very slim one because friends don't go out with their friends' exes) with the other girl, you will have to "break up" with your current one (that is, if you two are ever officially together).
The dorm is a small place. Words travel. You do not want to be stepping on two boats at the same time.
But you pretty much nailed every available nail into your own coffin at getting the new girl by going over every night and sleeping with your current gal buddy.
I suggest, just get your *** out of that dorm (break up by saying you two are incompatible or something so you can salvage all your other friendships made at the dorm) and go for some other girl OUTSIDE of the dorm.
Don't make yourself unhappy (by facing the new girl every night, knowing that you can never have her) and your current gal buddy unhappy (she might really fall in love with you and you will hurt her feelings in time).
2006-10-01 19:26:04 · answer #2 · answered by syrope 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You better leave than to create a mess in the dorm
You should tell your gf that she should dump you , not the opposite.
The wrong thing which has happened is, that you've decided to be in a relation with a girl that you haven't sure about. And now, you found the girl that you think is the one...
Well sorry, but juz eat it..
2006-10-01 19:19:25 · answer #3 · answered by Happy_hours 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to do what makes you happy. If you can't stop thinking about this other girl it seems to me the girl you are currently seeing is not the one for you anyway and you are just wasting your time. It may be awkard at first but if you think she is the one and she likes you too why not give it a go.
2006-10-01 19:25:09 · answer #4 · answered by crts_kaz 1 · 1⤊ 0⤋
you have to break-up with your current gf...it's a considered sin if your in a relationship and you're fantasizing other woman...you have to be honest and live the most of your life..you have to be with someone that will make you happy..stop thinking about others, start thinking about yourself..if they are relaly your freinds they will understand you..gudluck
2006-10-01 19:12:55 · answer #5 · answered by harukashin 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
well, well lets see.....
so u slept with her everyday and now you plan to go after another person and then spend another feew nights with her and then.... dump her for another one is it?...
well, dont get me wrong but my religion and my own beliefs tell methat you are not supposed to be doing so...
2006-10-01 19:17:33 · answer #6 · answered by Teen-sensible! 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
it will not only break the girl's heart but you will get nasty comments fr your circle of friends.
2006-10-01 19:17:04 · answer #7 · answered by star 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
ask the both of them to have a threesome, they might go for it. and then again maybe not.
2006-10-01 19:14:58 · answer #8 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
you are stupid.
2006-10-01 19:14:05 · answer #9 · answered by dirtyoldman 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋