2006-10-01 19:08:44 · 8 answers · asked by Cuttie 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
he told me he love ,me..his my friend since college....how many times we broke up because our friends are against our relationship....but now it happens...he doesnt want to abort the baby.... he promise me he will tke good care of us..but as of now he cannot tell it to his family and the girl... because the girl is giveing medicine support to his mom.... dats why,...he doesnt know how to leave her..but he talk to my parents already...they told him to take good care of me...but my dad says that he need to tell it to his parents... when the baby comes out...because his mom is sick..thats what we tell my parents.... i love him but i dont know now... i was so disapointed.... because all i want n my parents is marriage
2006-10-01 21:59:54 · update #1
Well then you have to decide what it is you are going to do aren't you? Are you planning on keeping the baby? If so then who is going to financially responsible and support that baby? Obviously if he has another girlfriend you were just being used for sex and now you've learned the consequences...
2006-10-01 19:31:19 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
no,,,,he can he just doesnt want the truth coming out,,give him a time limit,,if you are keeping the baby and then go ahead and let him know you will require support for the child,,the fact he doesnt want it to come out and spoil his happy family life is irelevant,,dont be pushed away,set a time limit for him to start talks with you about the child and se how you go,,,he may sneak round behind their backs but that isnt really your concern,,as long as you have what you are entitled when the baby comes,,any double life he makes for himself wont make any difference to you and yours,,dont be tempted to becaome the black widow and ruin all for him,,he isnt your boyfriend so any problems he may face he must face without you,,,,sort you and the baby and give him time knowing you are going nowhere.
2006-10-02 03:32:00 · answer #2 · answered by lex 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Personally I think that you shouldn't even worry about it and say the hell with the guy. Obviously he doesn't care that much if he can't tell his fam cause he has a gf. He sure wasn't thinking about her when yall was baby makin. God has a plan for you that's why he blessed you, and it may be hard but you can do it with or without him.
2006-10-02 02:44:26 · answer #3 · answered by girlz2415 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
It is upto you to decide whether to keep the baby or abort it.If you are brave enough to bring the baby up and are financially strong then go ahead and let the baby see the world otherwise abort it early.Dont commit same mistake next time.
2006-10-02 02:42:48 · answer #4 · answered by ravinder b 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Have an abortion.. you should know better then to be banging men with gf's anyway and you damn sure do not want to drag a kid into the mix wait till you have a husband that will love the child
2006-10-02 03:42:56 · answer #5 · answered by Amy M 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
he can..but he wont
AND YOU KNOW it
ahhhhhhhhh! fustrating
I hope you learn from your mistakes and teach your baby better
values. we all make mistakes..just learn and dont repeat them.
he doesnt love you..he would be honorable to you if he did
sorry..just get tired of hearing this over and over...the guy cheating and some girl just taking it..this guy sounds like he might end up making you miserable....marriage is no joke...hard.!
God bless you...dont approve of what you are doing..but
please ask God to help you for your baby's sake
(BTW did you know he had a GF?)
2006-10-02 02:47:12 · answer #6 · answered by raindrops 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
why did you do it in the first place.
you have to think about the child and whether your going to keep it because the child will be the biggest impacted not you, yes it is devestating to get rid of your own child but think about this the child will ask one day who its daddy is and you need to think about what your going to say and the fathers familiy may reject the child which will further impact on the child. you also need to think about wat if the child asks you why there parents arent together. think about how you would feel if you were told that you were the result of a one night stand,
2006-10-02 04:00:42 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
That sounds like a cop out to me. Your child should not be denied access to its family just because dad is a cheater. What were you thinking? Did you know he had a girlfriend?
2006-10-02 02:35:41 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋