if you met a girl that was true, honest, trustworthy etc and the majority of her friends were guys would that turn you off or upset you? See for some reason I have never had many friends that were girls... i just relate and can talk to guys better. Any suggestions?
2006-10-01 19:03:30 · 20 answers · asked by cholelouise 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
just be you and if anyone thinks less of you just because you have more male than female friends they aren't worth knowing anyway....if they give you the opportunity to be you and like you say your true honest and trustworthy they will see that and love that about you if they are true to everything they say to you....it is easy to say who you are but more to be it...so you honour what you say, have they ???
2006-10-01 19:22:09 · answer #1 · answered by waveboy7675 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though I am not a guy, i just want to say that is my main problem also. I relate with guys more then people think I should, but I still have a fair amount of girlfriends to relate to also. Guys always want to be 'just friends', even if I do see them as more.
Guys might get jealous, or be a bit intimidated that your always with guys, but if your trustworthy, i seriously don't think a problem should occur. Good luck!
2006-10-02 02:07:47 · answer #2 · answered by havoks_angel 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Questionable at best. Nothing ticks off a guy more than a lot of guys hanging out or talking with your girl on a regular basis all the time.
2006-10-02 02:06:39 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Overall it is a turnoff for me, but it is also nice sometimes to be with a woman who sympathizes about how crazy women can be. He will also like that you get along well with his friends. Do not mention you have more guy friends, talk about your girl friends. Also, when you are two are alone act more feminine than when you are around his friends.
2006-10-02 02:13:35 · answer #4 · answered by PHF A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Whenever you do things with your guy friends, always make sure he is invited. Also, make sure he and you do things that are exclusive to the two of you. Have funny moments together. Make sure that there is nothing that you would tell one of your guy friends but not him. And don't be surprised if your bf never wants to be friends with your guy friends.
2006-10-02 02:28:04 · answer #5 · answered by Dave S 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
how would u feel if he had a bunch of girls hanging around him?
of course u will say it wouldn't bother u, because it would mke it a double standard. i know for a fact it would bother u.
suggestions: figure out if u want guy friends or a bf
2006-10-02 03:06:29 · answer #6 · answered by jesse james 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hey,I'd be fine. Just make sure you tell the guy youre only friends with the other men
2006-10-02 02:09:48 · answer #7 · answered by Rg 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
personally, i believe that you dont judge a person buy their friends, but if a chick i reali like had a lot of guy friends that wouldnt reali put me off. i wouldnt be bothered at all. but i think it depends, coz some of my friends are reali into chicks that have a lot of guy friends coz they are easier to relate to. guys want girls that understand them and a girl that hangs with guys would be easier to get along with. so i suppose i think i would most likely approach a girl that finds ity easi to get along with guys coz we most likely to got along.
2006-10-02 02:14:34 · answer #8 · answered by platinum 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I honestly think that it shouldn't bother him at all. If you wanted to be with one of them you obviously wouldn't be with him. Let him know that and let him know that you really care for him. Now in his defence if any of the guys that your friends with are trying to come between your relationship with him then You probably shouldn't hang with them.
2006-10-02 02:10:49 · answer #9 · answered by Joshua C 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My GF hates all my male mates bar 1, but she wouldn't go out with him cause of some things that he says and has on him-rings and long fingernails.
thanks
2006-10-02 02:08:18 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋