I will give my circumstance first and then ask my question.
My self any my boyfriend had been in a 2 year relationship. He goes away for a summer vacation every year by himself that i cannot go with him to for various reasons. It takes a great deal of trust on my part of him. I do trust him, but it really presses me to my limit. This year he decided to press me further and dive 3 days alone with a female companion. What upset me with this is that they shared a motel room on the road to save money. He saved $80.00 for the one night. He makes over $80,000 a year so money is really not an issue to him. He did want to save the money and did not think it was a big deal.
Here is my question if she suposidly cares deeply for my boyfiend as a friend and has her own boyfiend why was she puzzeled that I was upset and not apologetic that this cascaded into so many problems for us that he lost me his girlfiend of 2 years?
2006-10-01 18:50:40 · 5 answers · asked by adobeprincess 6 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I made one of my friends girlfiends feel uncomfortable and I felt really bad. I had known my friend since 1989 and nothing was going on. It was completely platonic. This was just some girl he had met.
2006-10-01 18:51:58 · update #1
If they have this friendship bond I am so shocked that she would not care about him. He tells me that she did nothing wrong that she is a "gentle lady" whatever that means.
2006-10-01 18:53:01 · update #2
They were both comming traveling from to and from this thing called burning man so he did not see any problems with them running around naked togehter not that they did.
Here is the link to the event
http://www.burningman.com
2006-10-01 18:54:24 · update #3
This is supposed to be some peaceful loving envornmental event, but my boyfriend came back really angry at me calling me a hen pecker and saying that he had been with "Burning Man" for 4 years and me only 2.
2006-10-01 18:55:38 · update #4
Must be white? He is a hispanic male. I am a white female and no did not accept it. He said this is my life, my culture, my tribe, my family deal with it or break up with me and I broke up with him. He was just treating he did not want a break up, but he got one.
2006-10-01 18:57:40 · update #5
Diving with and sharing a hotel room with another woman on a vacation he should be taking YOU on.
Where do I start?...
2006-10-01 18:56:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I don't know that sounds kind of fishy. He makes over $80K a year and wants to share a room with another woman besides his girlfriend to save eighty dollars. That's a little ridiculous. If either of them had any respect for you or your feelings they wouldn't have even attempted that stunt.
2006-10-01 18:56:45 · answer #2 · answered by Alessa 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
I'm sorry but my man won't go nowhere with no women without me let alone share a room, (must be white) sorry!
2006-10-01 18:55:06 · answer #3 · answered by dfarrar5682 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
i would not tolerate it...
i mean if it was my bf i would flip..im not gonna lie to you adn be here oh dont worry he is being honest...cuz you never know..you were not there....
at least he didnt hide it from you did he? like he told you he stayed in a motel with her? b/c if he didnt and somehow youfound out then maybe you should've worried this much
2006-10-01 18:56:12 · answer #4 · answered by Cutie77 3 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lost me at .... "I will give my ....."
But after several derailings and cups of coffee, I have arrived at one logical answer. Its 2 words: 'Move On'
In Detail: This tale smells fishy.
2006-10-01 19:49:38 · answer #5 · answered by stillfreezing 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋