I went to highschool homecoming with this girl who is very shy. During the dance, i felt like i was really breaking her shell and we had a really good time. During the afterparty, we played lots and lots of games with sexual themes. WHat surprised me the most was how little she knew about sex. Its not like i really want sex from her, cuz shes a nice girl, but its just so sad. And all herfriends are really outgoing and had to explain everything to her. Im wondering if i shud ask one of her friends to teach her some stuff. I really like her too, but its just a little weird, shes so out of it. Shud i ask her friend , who is not a virgin, to help her break out of her shell?
2006-10-01 18:50:22 · 10 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
you must not really like her cause if you did you wouldn't be trying to change her. maybe she doesn't want to be knocked up until she gets out of highschool
2006-10-01 18:54:00 · answer #1 · answered by jungle cheeks 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
NO! Don't do that! You will take away an innocence that is so rare and precious. She will learn when she is older and able to comprehend the nature of sex and the responsibility of taking that step. I wonder if you truly understand how inappropriate your question is. If you really like this girl then go slow and be patient. She will appreciate you more and you will retain your self respect. In life there are many choices we must make. And with every choice made there are consequences. Be sure of your decisions and don't let peer pressure guide you.
2006-10-02 02:01:01 · answer #2 · answered by The fallen Angel 1 · 2⤊ 0⤋
Dude you just don't get it do you??? It's all about that damn thing called sex, for you guys isn't it?????!!!!!! If you like her you should understand. You know I'm that way too. I don't want to know a thing about that crap 3 letter word. And I don't want anybody to teach me about it because high school teacher enough. If all you want is 3 letter word than got get yourself a h****r, If you want to have a relationship with this girl don't even bother her with what she doesn't like. If she doesn't know and doesn't want to know about sx than don't bug her about it.
and grow up!!!!!!! boy!
2006-10-02 02:24:06 · answer #3 · answered by Desert Rat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Dont you dare corrupt that poor gal. Sheesh.......there are far and few like that and you would only be so lucky as to find one. Respect her and be glad she hasnt been around the block.
2006-10-02 19:35:54 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Boy, you need to understand girls would hate for their boyfriend to ask one of her girlfriends to teach her some 'tricks'. You help her if you like her so much. Don't resort to one of her girlfriends, that will hurt her worse than anything.
2006-10-02 01:57:02 · answer #5 · answered by havoks_angel 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
No, cause it might make her think you just want sex, besides if it's about her, talk 2 her.
2006-10-02 01:54:52 · answer #6 · answered by No Kitty Cat for you!!! 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If I whant her to come out of her shell, don´t talk to her freind. Thats like betraing her... talk to her about is... it´s hard I know, but say that you need to talk and sit donw and talk sirous about it... it helps :P
2006-10-02 01:58:18 · answer #7 · answered by jvjonsson 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why should one of her friends to this? Why don't you try to teach her? Isn't that how you learned?
2006-10-02 01:53:01 · answer #8 · answered by Pamela N 4 · 0⤊ 2⤋
Yea, that 's a good idea
2006-10-02 02:11:34 · answer #9 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
NO! you should thank G-d she is a good girl.
2006-10-02 01:52:53 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋