You know, before your wedding.
2006-10-01 18:07:10 · 36 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Weddings
ok..first of all, I never implied it was me that was facing this choice. I just asked if YOU would.
2006-10-01 18:12:56 · update #1
Wow, some of you need to refresh yourselves with the English language and learn how to read better. When the hell did I imply that I was asking for advice? Some of you need to get off your ****** high horse.
2006-10-01 18:17:27 · update #2
It costs a bit extra for that I believe......................
2006-10-01 18:12:50 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 4⤊ 0⤋
Ok so there was this caucasian bride that did her black male stripper after her bachelorette party. (you need to know that the groom was also caucasian.)
The wedding went off, and all was well. 3 months later, the couple welcomed the news that they were pregnant.
6 months later, the grandparents are all in the delivery room with video cameras rolling, and the baby comes out - black. The delivery room falls silent, the video cameras get put away, everybody walks out except for the med staff, her and her baby are sent directly off to an apartment, and the marriage is nullified.
You've made a commitment to only have sex with this one person long before the wedding vows. What does the bachelor/bachelorette party have to do with that?
My opinion - you're flirting with disaster. In fact you're doing way more than flirting.
2006-10-01 18:22:35 · answer #2 · answered by Jerry 3 · 2⤊ 0⤋
I think it's exactly the reason why women worry about their husbands having a bachelor party!!!
It is entirely unacceptable, and utterly reprehensible, in that one has already committed to be with ONLY one's fiance for the rest of your lives. Just because a person hasn't been thru the ceremony doesn't mean they haven't committed. If a person is cheating before the marriage even starts, the marriage has no chance for success.
2006-10-02 05:05:02 · answer #3 · answered by abfabmom1 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
In general, I do not believe in bachelor/bacherlette parties.
If a person has to see naked people, especially in a very sexual graphic way other than their soon to be wife/husband, they are not ready for marriage then.
It is untasteful, immoral (to my values/morals) and extremely disrespectful (mocking) the "marriage' that is going to take place.
I know some people who admitted to kissing, fondling and even having sex with them at the end of the night. I do not associate myself with people who choose to cheat on their spouse.
My fiance and I do not believe in it. If our friends/family want to take us out, that is no problem. Just no strippers, drunk, idiotic behavior. If it takes place, I will leave and I will sue for emotional damage along with the expense forked out that went down the drain for the wedding planning (most will be non-refundable due to destination wedding).
However, I trust him and he trusts me. We both very clear how we both feel and that is what makes it even more grand I have a man who don't look at women as sexual objects.
There is those who have these parties and participate in things like that. It is not my thing and I disagree with it. However, what floats their boat is what keeps it rocky.
2006-10-01 20:37:32 · answer #4 · answered by Mutchkin 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
THERE'S NOTHING WRONG WITH IT! That is if you enjoy, being a liar, betraying your morals (if you have any), aiding in prostitution (commiting a crime), possibly catching a disease (condoms do brake you know), morning after regrete, and knowing that when you stand infront of God and the women you are about to marry that you are guality, if you are okay with this THEN HAVE FUN! How about you call your fiance (you know the one you are supossed to be deticating your life too) while you're doing it, that way she has the chance to leave you or better yet she can find a hottie and do the samething!
Enjoy the penecilin :-)!
2006-10-01 18:20:03 · answer #5 · answered by TressesAbroad 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Gotta love a fantasy all men think about. Why not get him 2 or 3 hookers not dancers (strippers as you say) Your friend couldn't afford to sleep with a dancer. This is a topic that men and woman will never see eye to eye on. Why wait until he gets married. Buy 2 or 3 for him, yourself, and all of your friends. I am just kidding people. I use to be a stripper. You and all of your friends together couldn't afford me, or get me hot. We strippers roll our eyes at each other when we dance for men like you.
2006-10-02 18:30:10 · answer #6 · answered by LadyRedWild 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would not have sex with a stripper at my bachelor party. But I would watch the women dance and have fun with my boys. Another question would you have strippers at the bachelor party if the future wife was totally against it.
2006-10-03 14:07:17 · answer #7 · answered by Bigboi47 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if you are actually considering this then you are not ready for marriage. I can't believe you would actually ask for advice on this. You are completely selfish. What do you think about your significant other having sex with a male stripper before the marriage. Answer that question first and then you can figure it out.
2006-10-01 18:14:40 · answer #8 · answered by danny_austin4 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You gotta trust EVERY guy at the party. I mean completely. I mean trust like "Yeah dude, I can help you move that body. I'll be over in a minute."
If you don't trust EVERY guy like that, just enjoy the show, let your single buddies have some fun and then tell your new wife that the party made just made you think about being with her even more....
If the brides father ever found out, he's likely to kill you before the ceremony and he'd be justified.
2006-10-01 18:17:18 · answer #9 · answered by shogun_316 5 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Not a problem. How do you feel about your future wife having sex with the stripper at her bachlorette party. You know, before the wedding.
2006-10-01 19:21:55 · answer #10 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
commitment should start BEFORE the wedding. a bachelor party is not your "last chance," your last chance was before you decided to get married in the first place.
unless you're in an open relationship, about to enter an open marriage, keep your pants on! better yet, don't have a stripper at your bachelor party.
even better: don't get married if you don't have enough respect for your future spouse not to cheat on him or her the day before the wedding! sheesh.
2006-10-01 18:14:04 · answer #11 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 2⤊ 1⤋