so if you got any advice that with help thanx.
2006-10-01 18:03:33 · 7 answers · asked by fcjf99 2 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
I know how you feel. I lost my Mom 10 years ago. It was hard for a long time. I still get emotional about her. She is your Mom and you will never get over the hurt, but you will be able to remember her with smiles and laughter. It's just too soon to believe it. I also lost my Dad 17 years ago, so I really feel your pain. I will remember you in my prayers.
2006-10-01 18:11:30 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Hun we all lose 'i lost too my son 'i been living my life in a sad world but I'm coming to see that we all must move on' like everyone had told me ,my son's spirit is with me, same as your mom 'take time to grieve ,it will take some time to get used to this dramatic change that has taken place in your life' just remember her as she was when she was here' get a dog companion ,you need something you can love and it can love you back, im sorry for your loss 'shes in good hands i promise you
2006-10-02 01:09:13 · answer #2 · answered by bossy 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your loss. I don't know what to tell you since you only gave us two sentences to know about your situation. But I do know that God is a God of comfort. Was your mother a Christian? Do you know Jesus as your Savior? That would help a lot about what advice people could give you here in the religion/spirituality situation. In either case, seek God's comfort and may He give it to you in Jesus' name, amen.
1 Peter 5:6 Humble yourselves, therefore, under the mighty hand of God so that at the proper time he may exalt you, 7 casting all your anxieties on him, because he cares for you.
2006-10-02 01:08:05 · answer #3 · answered by Martin S 7 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You lost your mom? Did she pass away or something? If she has passed away, all I can say is let your grief be brief and move on with life whenever you feel that you are ready. Find a good listening ear and tell him or her what you are feeling now. Don't coop yourself at home all the time. Go out. A change in environment liftens one's spirit and mood.
2006-10-02 01:07:31 · answer #4 · answered by iwillmoveawayoneday 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Man i am so sorry to hear about this. I can only imagine what you are going through right now. The best thing i can say is take it one step at a time. Realize that your mother loved you very much. But the sad thing is you can not bring her back, and you can only try to move on and live your life to its fullest. I know that sounds horrible to say and i REALLY can not imagine what you are going through. If i lost my mother i would be DEVASTATED. Yes it is a bad thing but you have to look at death as a natural occurence. It could happen to anyone. It could happen to you now as you are reading this. I am not saying forget about her, but just take one step at a time. Try to keep your mind busy. Do puzzles, do crosswords, play sports, smoke a bowl of that wacky tobaccy. Just calm your nerves as best as you can. Do whatever you like to do and do a lot of it to keep your mind busy.
2006-10-02 01:12:03 · answer #5 · answered by Ben H 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow, I'm sorry to hear that. I would get involved in church and make friends with a woman around your moms age. A lot on the older women in the church are widows and lovely, so they would be glad to receive your friendship.
2006-10-02 01:10:00 · answer #6 · answered by ? 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
hi,
I also lost my dad when I was just 15.
I just thought that it was better for him. His life here on earth was short so his life with our creator is longer which I believe is better.
He is luckier than I am who is still living in this world. If your mother is a christian I believe she is now happy serving our God.
2006-10-02 01:11:01 · answer #7 · answered by cooler 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋