I began to like this girl alot last year before school had ended and we were talking alot over the summer and we hung out a couple of times but it wasn't the right time to ask her out since we were both going on vacations..we had flirt with each other alot during the time and I felt like she really liked me but now that school started again shes not in any of my classes and I barely see her anymore. We always talked on AIM or on the phone no matter what but now she seems to ignore me.. should i even bother asking her out if she doesn't feel the same way about me?
2006-10-01 17:59:05 · 11 answers · asked by Jack Ripper 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
only one way to find out for sure. ask her.
2006-10-01 18:01:04 · answer #1 · answered by woodpecker 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sometimes the direct approach is best, just ask. But if that seems too bold for your liking, look for the following signs. Pay attention to your conversations with the person in question.
1) Does this person show a special interest in having a conversation with you and, once started, make an effort to keep that conversation going?
2) Has this person taken a sudden interest in your life and hobbies? This is a sure sign that he or she is interested in something.
3) Other elements of body language include frequent eye contact, holding your gaze and looking down before looking away.
4) Does the person you're wondering about just plain smile at you a lot?
Just remember, take each moment like it will be the last. This I feel will be a good start for you in knowing. Good Luck!!!!!!!
2006-10-04 06:31:30 · answer #2 · answered by Wolfie 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Look, if you really like this girl its worth a shot. Worst come to worse, she will say no. Will that be so bad? If she says no, respect her decision and don't bother her about it again, but don't ignore her either. Don't u approach her though- let her be the one to come to you. If she doesn't say yes, there will be plenty of others more considerate of your feelings.
2006-10-02 01:03:44 · answer #3 · answered by Bookworm 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't be scared. I think you have to give some hints- and I also think it'd be a great idea to ask her out. Then, you'll REALLY see whether or not she likes you like before. Do something dramatic. It always works. Go get her!
2006-10-02 01:03:06 · answer #4 · answered by Queen Cate, The Gorgeous 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would say try to get to know her again. Talk like you used to...
Don't ask her out now, unless you're fearless, and have no shame in humiliation... (Not saying she would humiliate you, just saying there is a possibility.)
2006-10-02 01:04:37 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Definitely, if you don't have a thing for keeping a "never been rejected" list, then go ahead. you will regret it at the end if you dont/
2006-10-02 01:02:34 · answer #6 · answered by suzzzzz 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
She doesn't like you, forget her & move on. If you keep this up nobody will like you, you're getting on my nerves already & I don't even know you.
2006-10-02 01:02:44 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you waited too long. It sounds like she has lost interest.
2006-10-02 01:02:29 · answer #8 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask her why she is ignoring you, but do not look despreate.
2006-10-02 01:01:24 · answer #9 · answered by LadyL 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
find out ask her
2006-10-02 01:01:32 · answer #10 · answered by labonitameli 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋