when you feel you're not good enough?
2006-10-01 17:50:16 · 13 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
dont say friends
2006-10-01 17:53:42 · update #1
i feel like destroying myself
2006-10-01 17:59:43 · update #2
Build on positive vibes, gain morals and keep them, respect the ones who r in charge!!!!
2006-10-01 17:56:22 · answer #1 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Find your niche, whether it is the dream to play soccer, or weight-lifting, being a chef. Take it a little bit at a time and build up like steps to the ultimate level you want to achieve. Reward yourself for accomplishing those individual baby steps. Get a cheerleader, someone who is behind you and wants you to succeed almost as much as you do. It could be a parent, friend, or work-out partner. Keep a journal about your daily accomplishments in that particular area. Read it over at the end of the week. You will see your progress in black and white, and that alone will have the reward of building confidence in yourself.
I had trouble with public speaking. I joined a Toastmasters International Speaking club. At first, I didn't even want to introduce myself. Then I found I could manage that. Eventually I got to get up and do this exercise called table topics, where someone gives you a subject and you speak on it for 3 minutes. That isn't really very long, but seems like an eternity when you are new at it. I built up to a much longer speech, a 10 minute presentation and earned my pin for Competant Toastmaster. It took 9 speeches before that, and a year. And they said that was FAST!!
So don't sell yourself short, decide on what your goal (or goals) is, and plan out what you can do to get there. Finding that you can do that will break the ice and start you on your way! Best of luck!
2006-10-02 01:06:55 · answer #2 · answered by H2Ocolors 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Talk to your school counselor. You're 13. Try to seriously address this now or it will REALLY affect all of your relationships for the next 10-15 years. And remember...you are always good enough and if someone doesn't see that, then they don't deserve you.
2006-10-02 00:56:28 · answer #3 · answered by Jenny J 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have had low confidence at times over the years. Most times I turned to the bottle. Which has its pros and cons
2006-10-02 00:52:56 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I know the things I could do like lose weight, exercise, do something nice for myself but I never do because it's to darn hard. I hope you feel better soon!!
2006-10-02 15:33:10 · answer #5 · answered by Janet lw 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well I was born 3'4" not a midget nor a dwarf i was born without my femur bones...But what i do for confidence in myself my mother taught me to never back down from anything...But i look forward to everyday of life that God gives me with my kids..Be thankful for what you got
2006-10-02 00:56:26 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
talk to people more, participate more so people will recognize you, if you have projects to present, dont be afraid and just go up there, if you feel you're not good enough..? tell to youself..."who cares..? as long as you did it and you think its ok, all other opinions don't matter"
2006-10-02 00:56:12 · answer #7 · answered by tonyma90 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Working out a lot. That's done it for me when I have gone through bad times. It gave me a sense of accomplishment.
2006-10-02 00:56:57 · answer #8 · answered by NightTrainWooWoo 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
i think your a wonderful person. there does that help:), I'm kidding. those must be somebody elses thoughts, get them out of your life and never look back. find someone who appreciates you.
2006-10-02 01:01:05 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
i just talk to my friends... tell them i'm feeling down, or that i'm not doing good enough... they ususally straighten me out lol
2006-10-02 00:52:50 · answer #10 · answered by miss chemist 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋