According to a national study it's not. Most women who go to bars and clubs on a regular basis were compared to the average prostitute who wanders the streets. It was found that more women who go to bars and clubs carry the same traits and morals as prostitutes and escorts. AND, they are more prone to be carriers of STD's. It was also found that a large number of prostitution is taking place in bars and clubs.
2006-10-01 17:47:46 · 13 answers · asked by terminalsoup 2 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
According to national statistics, marriage is no different. With a 50% divorce rate you can observe for yourself the overwhelming success of "Till death do us part." Given that the vast majority of divorce ends in a financial settlement of some sort there is little difference between a divorced wife and a prostitute in that respect.
The fact that most states require a blood test before issuing a marriage license gives me cause to question your assertion about STD's and ask why that is.
With regards to your views about morals I am curious as to how the basis of marriage involves not cheating on your spouse which essentially involves the concept of: "Don't have sex with anyone but me."
This to me shows jealousy, greed, selfishness and envy- all of which are supposed to be considered immoral. In my opinion this is a fantastic inversion of values and makes no sense.
It would appear to me, for all of these reasons, that the large amount of prostitution is taking place in churches and casinos.
I find it inconceivable and curious that you base your morals on nothing more than a 15-minute ceremony.
2006-10-01 18:11:54 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I tried the bar seen for a long time and my answer is No it is not good to try to meet a woman at a bar except for a one night stand or to be used by her or even him if its the other way around. The study is very much right the bar seen does have the same traits and morals as a prostitute. What you get in bars are alcohol and it's bad for any relationship. People who drink on a regular basis or drinks most of the time when you go out has problems (and possible a whole lot more than just drinking,) other problems are drugs or boyfriend/girlfriend at home using drugs beating them or both, or their an alcoholic or maybe they even have mental problems. If you are a church goer and believe if the Lord then you know drinking is a sin in his eyes and will only do you and others harm. So look at it this way. Bars are Satan's Home. Church is the Lord's Home. You will find a bad woman in a bar and you will find a good woman in church. The woman who follows Christ will give you a better life and treat you right (but you still have to be careful because some do get off the right path and start following down the wrong one). The main thing is she doesn't hang out in bars and drink on a regular basis. If that's the case find a different woman. I have a lot of experience and got caught up with women at bars and the best relationships I have had. Are the women that stay away from bars and/or drinking.
Rules to live by:
1. No drugs, No drinking, Resist Temptation, Result is Good relationship.
2. Drugs yes, Drinking yes, Temptation yes, Result is Bad relationship.
2006-10-01 18:28:59 · answer #2 · answered by bucksolutions1 2 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Are the women also in the Air Force? If so, then it all makes sense. I personally am a fan of STDs, you're never lonely if you've got some crabs for company. It's like waking up with a little surprise, I don't mean the girl, but what she's given you ;)
p.s. You've got to know who this is, and if you don't...well I hear Mucky's is a great place to meet some high quality whor---ladies, excuse me ;)
2006-10-01 18:14:23 · answer #3 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Interesting statistics - Never heard about the prostitution and morals.
That's why I won't meet men in bars for similar reasons
2006-10-01 17:50:38 · answer #4 · answered by Claire 5 · 1⤊ 1⤋
I think you have to use your instincts when you go to the bar and start talking to a girl....You can tell what kind of girl she is just by talking to her...or even her actions to you!!! I'm far from a prostitute and i go to bars every now and then....you just gotta use your head when approaching certain women!!
2006-10-01 17:51:20 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 1⤋
Ìt depends on your personality,have u also pitched tent in a bar or club,birds of a feather flock together,so u will just find someone whos like u
2006-10-01 17:50:52 · answer #6 · answered by Bobsinclair 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Lots of really good people go to bars. Go to Pubs or a place where an older, mature crowd would go.
2006-10-01 17:50:11 · answer #7 · answered by Fleur de Lis 7 · 1⤊ 1⤋
my hubby met me at a club while I was meeting with a girlfriend...happily married now for over 10 yrs with 2 great kids. I am hardly a prostitute.
Don't believe everything you read.
2006-10-01 17:50:55 · answer #8 · answered by ? 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋
It depends on the type of women you want to meet. You will meet a different type at the supermarket and church then you will at a club. You have to choose the type you want to meet.
2006-10-01 17:53:32 · answer #9 · answered by bionicworm1 2 · 0⤊ 2⤋
are you telling me that thy cant go to bars like we do thy want to relax like we do so you have to call them names and say this and that about them at times i think that a national study wrong so don't think like that woman have the right to go were thy want just like me and you
2006-10-01 17:57:14 · answer #10 · answered by freeman3905@sbcglobal.net 6 · 1⤊ 1⤋