Man my situation is F**ked up, I'm about to have a baby with someone I didn't even want to be with. I was drunk one night and had unprotected s*x with her. I'm miserable with this female she already has a daughter, and when I first found out she was pregnant, me and my ex-girlfriend was in the process of trying to work things out and I was happy. Now I'm not, I mean dont get me wrong my girl is cool and I got love for her. But the main reason I'm with her is so she won't put child support on me. And to be honest I've been cheating on her with my ex girlfriend. I've been having un protected sex with her for like the last 3months, when she comes to town. See after all this went down about us finding out my present girl is having my baby, it hurt her so bad she moved to another city. this sh*it is hard on me I'm trying to do the right thing because there's a baby involved. But I don't want to be with this girl, But I continue to try. Please help a ***** out?
2006-10-01 17:46:15 · 7 answers · asked by babykobe 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Be real with yourself your going to have to stop seeing your "EX" all together and as for your girl, you have no obligations to her in a relationship because she's carrying your child. However, it is wrong to lead your girl on. What you need to do is tell your shorty that you will be there for the baby in every way. As for ducking "Child Support" (the Barer of Bad News) you should just be willing to sacrifice whatever it takes to support that child even if she does take you they will only enforce you to pay a reasonable amount according to your income and cost of living. So with that said you need to let your ex-girl go because if you loved her you would be in a relationship with her right now. What kind of woman is your ex to be 1. sexing a guy who is in a relationship with a child on the way knowingly (that's disrespecting herself) 2. Not wanting better for herself! All I can say since you have a child on the way that child should be your number one focus and not these "Broads" you are involved with! Lastly, may blessings be upon your child, being a parent is the best blessing God could ever have given me!
2006-10-01 17:58:46 · answer #1 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
first of all, you're only getting what you deserve for being dumb enough to have unprotected sex with girls. But now that you're in the situation, leave her and pay the child support. Why should you both be miserable. You will pay for this your whole life but it only has to be financially.
2006-10-02 00:50:37 · answer #2 · answered by Michelle 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well it's all your fault for not wearing a condom. How do you think people get pregnant? Also there are diseases too. Dude- don't be so ignorant, it's not good for the male species...
2006-10-02 00:50:50 · answer #3 · answered by girl 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe she should consider giving the baby up for adoption
2006-10-02 00:48:40 · answer #4 · answered by zaeli22 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
get drunk and take pain killers at the same time. This will make u feel better.
2006-10-02 00:47:19 · answer #5 · answered by A.B. Dobe 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
well you should raise your child, its your responsibility as a father
2006-10-02 00:48:19 · answer #6 · answered by maxtrolle 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
good luck! i hope you make the right decision..
2006-10-02 00:49:03 · answer #7 · answered by Mila 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋