Ok, heres the story. I dated this girl from Germany, while she was here in the U.S. she was fond of me, and fell in love. I dont share the same deep emotion with her. I actually was a jerk, and just ended up using her most of the time. I tried in so many ways to tell her that I just want to be freinds with her, but she keeps coming back. She ended up going back to Germany, and we continued "relationship?" at some point,she ended up visiting me for two weeks. Which was hell for both of us, I couldnt fake the fact that I dont really love her, so i was mean when she visited. When she left I told her that Ill come visit her next. What I actually ended up doing is to Drop her, and I didnt return emails, or phone calls and stopped talking to her indefinetely. NOW, im lonely and feel like calling her and picking up where we left off, afterall she really loves me. What do you think?
2006-10-01 17:40:30 · 15 answers · asked by Mike 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
That would be wrong! Leave her alone. Do not mess up her life!
I could tell u how i know but i wont, leave her alone if u do not love her ---u could mess up her life and no tellling how many others.
2006-10-01 17:51:39 · answer #1 · answered by kay w 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I don't think you should START a relationship with her. You said "pick up where you left off" but in order to do that you need to have started somewhere to begin with. You basically saw her as a friend, someone to hang out with, not girl friend material, she on the other hand saw you more as boy friend material. So, what I would do is continue to talk to her. Do not neglect this woman from your life completely, like what you've been doing so far, and just take it slowly, and as time goes on you might see her as something more than just a friend. But if that happens be careful because long distance relationships rarely last. They can, don't get me wrong, but they rarely do.
2006-10-02 00:53:34 · answer #2 · answered by Dr. Joel 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you just want to use her again because you are lonely now. You should have cut if off the first time. Leave her alone.
2006-10-02 00:50:24 · answer #3 · answered by Tiffany V 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I think you need to find a woman here at home to be with. Playing games with a woman long distance can only hurt both of you.
2006-10-02 00:44:10 · answer #4 · answered by mopjky 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Sounds like you need to leave well enough alone. Find somebody who has the same quailities you seek. When you love someone you can't turn it on and off like that.
2006-10-02 00:45:58 · answer #5 · answered by Busy Lady 2010 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You DONT love her so dont lead her on. This behavior is normal when u are feeling lonely but continue to look for some1 here
2006-10-02 00:43:43 · answer #6 · answered by Justme 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Your a dog dude !! It's guy's like u that go around playing with girls heads...... and taking advantage of them.. using them whenever u want and then leave... your not a man your a stinkin chump !!
2006-10-02 00:47:08 · answer #7 · answered by BIG BEN 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
You need to find out what you want with her before you decide to go forward.
2006-10-02 00:46:10 · answer #8 · answered by me8md 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
don't lead the poor girl on like that, just becaus eyou feel lonely, whatever you do will come back to you...
2006-10-02 00:49:02 · answer #9 · answered by Red Crayon Aristocrat 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Wow Your a ********!!
Eat Sh*t Stupid ************!!
Ohh yea...
(GET A LIFE!!!!!)
2006-10-02 01:07:03 · answer #10 · answered by lolliepop_natalie 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋