My family just found out that my little brother was molested by a family member. If I kill this son of a b*tch, can I still get into heaven? (All relgions answer, which ever relgion agree's I'm changing to it, because that man is good as dead!)
2006-10-01 17:25:14 · 38 answers · asked by Anonymous in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
metazone- I didn't ask for smart @ss remarks, just reasonable answers, if you're too "savvy" to answer my question, f*ck off!
2006-10-01 17:49:14 · update #1
tohelpyou- Good point, I guess.
2006-10-01 18:00:29 · update #2
Luke 18:16
But Jesus called them unto him, and said, Suffer little children to come unto me, and forbid them not: for of such is the kingdom of God.
Romans 12:19
Dearly beloved, avenge not yourselves, but rather give place unto wrath: for it is written, Vengeance is mine; I will repay, saith the Lord.
Son, just by killing the man, is not going to heal your heart for the tearable thing this person has done to the child,
I was 6 when I was molested by a family member, and my brother was the instagater, then my brother molested his sister,
Yes it is a bad thing,
But too many places in the bible says, resist the devil an he will flee from you.
I can give you scripture, on not killing, but hateing someone the bible says is the same thing.
I know its hard, its fresh, and durty, your little brother is still with you, he needs you, out, not in jail, he needs you taking care of him, at home, what can you do, on the inside of a jail?
Actions, both, need to be thought about.
What is your little brother going to do with out you to hold him and kiss him an say Im sorry, it will never happen to you again, and belive you when your in the pin, getting raped yourself.
Take a deep breath,
You little brother, needs to put this man in jail and jail men will deal with him for you, they always do, he has no chance, let someone else take care of him for you, you have more problems inside that little boys head, he thinks its his falt, he feels dirty, he feels all alone, you go away, dude, that is not good.
You little brother deservers your love, compasion, and hand, and lap, and arm, and lips, and voice, and body. Not some phone call, not some court date, that will really make him feel this is his falt.
Dude, hit the wall, hit the ground, kick a tree, but stay cool for little brother, dude, don't you ever, leave him again. make him feel safe, only you can do that.
Trust me, the man is as good as dead. Let God deal with him.
He will get his,
Your brother, dude,, thats your mission, love him through it, help him heal, dont let him feel alone, take him, hold his hand, play with his hair, he is still with you.
My little brother is dead.
I tell you this, breath your breath on him for me.
I can no longer do that for mine, think about it.
2006-10-01 17:44:15 · answer #1 · answered by Faith Walker 4 · 3⤊ 0⤋
I am sorry to hear about your little brother, and you know what, for those who sin and do not ask for forgiveness from God for what they have done, God will deal with them accordingly, and God is very powerful and no one can escape his wrath.
So I can tell you now that whoever did this horrible act, will not get away with it, God will not allow him to get into heaven, but you most certainly can if you stand back and leave the pain and suffering for God to bestow upon the molester. How much hate you must be feeling, I do not blame you at all for feeling the way you do right now, and remember God does understand the way you are feeling and he will provide help for you and the family if you would only open your arms and let him in. I do wish the very best for you and the whole family and especially your younger brother. I'm sure this is not the answer you were looking for but I hope that you'll consider my answer as a possibility. I do know with all my heart that the offender will be brought to justice and I do wish the very best for you all in this troublesome time.
2006-10-01 17:45:27 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Are you on drugs? No!
That was going to be my original answere but when I read on I could see where your coming from. If I was you I'd probably feel that way too. Let me tell you this If you actually do kill this.... family member you will not only close your gateway to heaven you will also screw up your life and hurt your family even more.
I would say that you just keep away from him and keep your faith in God wether you are christian or jewish or whatever you are.
As a muslim I pray that God will give him what he deserves.
2006-10-01 17:37:37 · answer #3 · answered by purple blood 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is horrible thing that has happened to your little brother, those thoughts and feeling about getting the ultimate revenge would be my first reaction. But murdering this sick individual would not help the problem but only makes things worse, because your brother would lose his older brother and role model when you went to jail, someone he really needs especially having to go through something like this. The right thing is for you both of you to try and forgive him, it may take years or seem even impossiable but if you lets this disgusting offense effect both your lives for the negative you are giving your control to this person. Try to forgive and I promise you that if you do you both will be blessed for it. If you need someone to talk to feel free to drop me an e-mail. I will keep you both in my prayers. Take care
2006-10-01 17:35:29 · answer #4 · answered by pacificwaves8 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I have studied Theology some...and I will be honest.If you in your full-mind-go and do it....kill him, and then you say''Oh! I will join that religon'' to get into Heaven.........you won't get in! simple.
Its very complex, but one can not.....can not, get into Heaven by just joining a religion.
Heaven is for people who wish to FORGIVE...Jesus is the head of all who enter the real heaven.He said if you do not forgive...my Father will NOT forgive you.
So you have a huge problem.....and I will tell you also, there can be no room for someone, who takes another life..in all good mind-then says in clear mind...I'm sorry!...Because it is done on purpose.So really, your asking for a pardon! on something you did...knowing it to be wrong.That makes a mockery of the Blood Christ shead.(Like Oh! I will ask later..after doing the deed, for forgivness)..Forgivness is given to those, who know now...that they have done bad..Not doing the bad, then asking for forgivness ten mins later...No! that makes a mockery of Christ Jesus.People are forgiven for murder..all the time, but only after they have done the crime.They turn away from their wickedness..
You on the other hand, want to kill first...then say sorry!
Plus, you still won't get into heaven...as you can not find it, in your own heart to forgive this person...Thats a hard one I know, but I didn't set the rules GOD Himself did!!! for a good reason...HE said HE WILL PUNISH those...who hurt the young.
So your in a no win situation with your thinking. I'm sorry to say.
You MUST NOT EVEN TRY AND KILL THIS PERSON...for your brothers sake, he needs you!!! really he does-please think!
Plus, he has gone thru enough!!! without you giving more trauma
to his young life...o.k. just be there for him, love him...and pray you can find in your heart to be a good person..not a killer.
2006-10-01 17:50:49 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so sorry to hear about your little brother. That's awful! I'm a Muslim and in my faith actions are based upon the intention. Hypothetically, if you do kill this poor sod and later are truly sorry for taking the life of that person then (basically repentence) yes God will forgive you. Islam says do not kill those who are defenseless, and certainly not those who are innocent of crimes against you.
I hope you don't actually go and do what you wrote. Rest assured that what goes around comes around and if he/she doesn't get it in this life then it will be MUCH worse in the Hereafter. I hope there is some comfort in that for you.
2006-10-01 17:29:27 · answer #6 · answered by aali_and_harith 5 · 3⤊ 0⤋
You will be forgiven, but remember there will be consequences for you actions.. Just because God forgives doesn't mean you will not have to pay for your sins. Don't do it. Why would you want to go to prison for a scumbag? Be there for your brother. you won't be much good if you are put away. Let the molester be put away. Take action against him legally.
2006-10-01 17:34:21 · answer #7 · answered by pink9364 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I'm so so sorry. This happened in my family. The problem is that YOU will go to jail - and that can be horrible I assume. This will take place of course, long before the heaven issue.
Please please, get some knowledgeable help to deal with this - ask your doctor or the police for an experienced counsellor to deal with this trauma and grief - your own grief that you couldn't protect your brother, grief about what happened to your brother and grief about the person who caused this.
Get your brother some therapy also. He needs that plus he needs YOU to be there for him - not in jail. THINK THINK THINK -
Good luck.!!!
2006-10-01 17:33:26 · answer #8 · answered by concernedjean 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That so weird, the last thing I would be doing is on the internet asking questions about killing the person that molested my little brother, especially if I just found out about it.
But to each it's own.
Wow, twice?
2006-10-01 17:28:09 · answer #9 · answered by Anonymous · 2⤊ 0⤋
I would probably think about killing this person also but I would NOT do it. and you wouldn't either, your are very angry and rightfully so, but what good would it do your little brother if you are in some jail for the rest of your life. Only God can judge if you will be forgiven. and he is the one who will deal with that creep of a relative.
2006-10-01 17:35:42 · answer #10 · answered by glasgow girl 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋