should i move on 'or am i leaving him behind' i feel if we leave he will be lost souly and we are leaving all our memories behind
to california from delaware.
2006-10-01 17:08:05 · 17 answers · asked by bossy 1 in Society & Culture ➔ Religion & Spirituality
Salam alaikum (Peace be upon you)
Inna lillahi wa inna ilayhi rajiuun (From God we come and to Him we return). It must be hard for you to leave the place where you have so many memories. However you should remember that by leaving the place you are not leaving your son. Your son will always be with you as long as you remember him and pray for him. I believe moving to a new place will be better for you and your family. Because you can start a new life in a new place. You can always come back to your town for a visit.
Peace.
2006-10-01 20:49:28 · answer #1 · answered by ATK 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
My heart goes out to you for your loss, there is nothing as hard as that and no easy way to move on. I think it would be hard to move to Cali and leave your son behing but it might be a good thing temporarly anyways to give you a chance to heal a bit. A little break might help and if you didn't like it you could come back. I will have you in my thoughts.
2006-10-01 17:25:57 · answer #2 · answered by Brianne 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
thats a very hard question,and i sympathise with you..your son wont be lost souly as his soul will be in heaven looking down upon you..and im sure he would not want you too hold back ..is there any other relatives left in delaware that can tend to his grave ect..you can always go back and visit from tiem to time as well..god bless you
2006-10-01 17:12:58 · answer #3 · answered by free-spirit 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, our loved ones aren't hanging around the place they passed away at, nor at the cemetary. They are in heaven and with you whenever they want to be. You aren't leaving him behind. He would want you to go on your way in life and be happy. He can go whereever you go! I lost my brother and I live outside the state now, but he is with me a lot! I feel him and just know. You can't take away the memories and presence of the spirit. You only move away from the physical death place or cemetary. God Bless, and go on, he wants you to!!!!
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2006-10-01 17:11:52 · answer #4 · answered by lees girl 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋
If it is too soon stay where you are for a bit longer. Not sure what is in California, is it a new job or do u have family there?
A geographical change will not change memories or your feelings....they will follow you.
Also a note...change your avatar...your subject matter and the picture do not correlate.
2006-10-01 17:19:40 · answer #5 · answered by GiGi 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Absent from the body present with the Lord. Where would you be if you cremated him and scattered his ashes? You cant abandon his spirit any more than you can stop loving him. He lives in your heart and memories not in Delaware.
2006-10-01 17:12:56 · answer #6 · answered by timex846 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Memories do not attach themselves to places, although memories can take place in certain places in your mind. Make sure there are no unresolved issues in Delaware, and then enjoy a new chapter in your life. No one can take away your memories, and staying in a certain place won't take you back in time.
2006-10-01 17:10:40 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
I think you should move on, i think he would want that because you will still have memories!! His soul will come with you. So i think he will like that you will move on
2006-10-01 17:11:32 · answer #8 · answered by Anonymous · 1⤊ 0⤋
Move on. He will be with you always in your heart and in your memories. As for his spirit; it is in good hands.
2006-10-01 17:12:44 · answer #9 · answered by Nora Explora 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
That's a decision that has to be between you and God. But if you do decide to move to Northern California please be sure to visit the church I attend. We would be glad to share the gospel message with you and if you trust in Jesus for your salvation to invite you to join our congregation. http://www.alcf.net
2006-10-01 17:11:42 · answer #10 · answered by Martin S 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋