i quit my job that i worked for 8 years ,i left my country 9 month ago
i tried to make a connection with my colleages but all of them didnt reply me ,they didnt even open my ecards ,just one of them ,have a few connection with me ,i like to know why ,and i dont wane ask my colleage to tell me ,when i was there i never had a problem with them ,but i coulnt say goodbye to them but they know my appologe ,i was envolve with so many problem when i left the country , i dont feel good about that ,i emailed some of them 3 times ,but they didnt replied ,i dont wane think about them but still my mind look for a reason ,can anybody tell me something to feel better ,thanks
:they were not my close friends
2006-10-01 17:05:23 · 5 answers · asked by Kathie 2 in Health ➔ Mental Health
Hi, one thing for sure, you got to move on with your life. let me share with you my thoughts on your "problem"..
1) In the first place, your "problem" is NOT a problem at all.....since they are not your close friends (as informed by you), thus, there is no reason for you to expect their replies, if any....
2) Value of friendship is measured by how far you could go the extra mile and NOT how far your friends are willing to do for you....In your case, asked yourself first what have you done to value your friendship and not "looking" for reasons why your friends not replying you....always seek within yourself first .
Just my thoughts.(m_linda77@yahoo.com)
2006-10-01 17:14:43 · answer #1 · answered by m_linda77 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
The people you emailed may have been hurt that you didn't share your problems before you left and have made the mistake of judging you harshly. I am sorry your colleagues have treated you this way but unfortunately people are very much like this in today's society. Stay in touch with the ones who have replied and let the others go, there is no point worrying about them. I know it is hard not to take it personally but you must try, find some new friends in your new country you are probably dwelling on this because you are in a new country alone.
2006-10-02 00:26:15 · answer #2 · answered by Just Thinking 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If they weren't your close friends, chances are you don't need to stress about their lack of communication. You are in a new country, starting over, so move on!
2006-10-02 00:19:29 · answer #3 · answered by B. 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
People move on with their lives. Many people get so much email they don't have time to answer it all. Try calling them instead.
2006-10-02 00:25:52 · answer #4 · answered by ddead_alive 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Your English is very poor, if not unreadable, I cannot help you unless you ask someone to rephrase your question into some form of understandable English.
2006-10-02 00:11:07 · answer #5 · answered by froggy010101 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋