I had drunken sex with a very good friend of mine... he however has a girlfriend. I feel truly awful about this but dont know what to do for the best. I don't know if I should ignore the situation and carry on as normal, or If I should talk to him about it. I feel really bad about it, so he must be feeling a lot worst (we spoke about it very briefly and he said he felt really guilty) so should I let him know that im here as a friend if he needs to talk, and tell him for what its worth im sorry, for want of a better word, or just let it go. We have a sexual past together and I know we can move on and still be friends from this, its just I dont know what to do about this!!!
Please help, any advice is greatfully welcomed
Thanks Tess x
2006-10-01 16:54:29 · 4 answers · asked by flummoxed_19 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
if you think you can move on after saying im sorry to eachother and that it wont happen again then go ahead. i know you feel guilty and so does he. hopefully you can both learn from this.
good luck.
2006-10-01 17:00:29 · answer #1 · answered by hamhead 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Well 1st of all I would talk to hom & say wow that was really a bad idea & it can't happen again. Then I would make darn sure he plans on keeping his mouth shut!! Even if you both feel guilty it's easier for you to live with the guilt then hurt his girlfriend. And believe me she would never trust you again!!! Or him for that matter.
2006-10-02 00:02:15 · answer #2 · answered by michelle_075 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
SINCE YOU AND HE ARE GOOD FRIENDS THEN I WOULD
JUST TALK TO HIM ABOUT WHAT HAPPEN, AND THEN I
WOULD LEAVE IT ALONG, BUT KNOW YOU KNOW THAT
DRINKING IS NOT A GOOD THING, MAYBE THIS IS A LESSON'
THAT BOTH OF YOU CAN LEARN FROM THIS, AND MOVE
ON.
2006-10-02 00:03:40 · answer #3 · answered by luckystar 6 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Stay away until you;re both drunk again.
2006-10-01 23:59:10 · answer #4 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋