I had a date with this guy once and i think that im fallin for him. Coz he is nice to me and giving me some special attention. But yesterday i sent him a message and called him but not answering. Then the next time i called him, it was just a voice message answered me. I think i did it twice and then sent him a message saying sorry and i thought it was a joke. Coz that afternoon he was kidding me saying that he will never have a conversation again with me until i get a full night rest. Calling him triple times with a 2 messages on his phone, do you think that he gets irritated with me? or does it make him turned off? or do u think that he doesnt like me anymore? please help and kindly advice me what to do...
2006-10-01 16:54:01 · 4 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
Please do not mistake love for lust. You had one date with this guy and you may think you are falling for him and you very may well be, but again, you could be misinterpreting your feelings. It is a fantastic feeling to have someone you are interested in show interest in you, or give you the attention you seek. Do not rush anything, and definitely take your time. As far as the phone calls go, ease yourself. Don't throw yourself at this guy, because many men will interpret this as a sign of desperation. And in some cases, when a guy gets the red flag (desperation) he will tend to take advantage of the situation...and in the end you are the one who will get hurt. It's not attractive to look needy and act needy, many people enjoy a good "chase", and little playing hard to get. Honestly, "clinging" people is a very huge turnoff to all people. If you really want to start something with this guy, play it cool...give it time.
2006-10-01 17:05:33 · answer #1 · answered by KG 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why dont YOU play hard to get? regardless of what guys say they do like a little adventure. Right now hes playing that with you and its working.
2006-10-01 17:04:06 · answer #2 · answered by Melissa A 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Girl calm down & back off.Your gonna scare him if he thinks your obbsessive. Just take a breather & give him time to respond. Guys don't want you parked up their butt! He will call just give him a minute.
2006-10-01 17:06:15 · answer #3 · answered by michelle_075 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Stop obsessing so much and leave him alone. Let him be the one to contact you and he will when he is ready.
2006-10-01 16:56:35 · answer #4 · answered by Miss J 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋