is it worth waiting.... ?
2006-10-01 16:52:00 · 11 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
No. You should not be experiencing this either. Move on with your life. While there are many things you can and should be waiting for---a man is not one of them. If you know that he doesn't like you don't wait around for him to come around. Life is way too short. Wait to enroll in college, wait upon a really great job offer, wait for the day you get your driver's license, wait for the holiday season so you can see your best friend flying in from Canada, but please don't wait for a man who wouldn't notice if you were wrapped from head to toe in reynolds saran wrap. Look at it this way---it's his loss.
2006-10-01 17:02:25 · answer #1 · answered by roddy 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
Yes, It is worth waiting... It may sound rediculos, But my girlfriend of 3 years just broke up with me. I Love her more than life, I have promised myself I will wait for her to come back until my death. If she does come back, she will be flatterd and think it was romantic. If she never comes back, I will at least never of been hurt again.
2006-10-01 23:57:52 · answer #2 · answered by stephen 1 1 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No please dun wait for the guy. I am a 26 year old guy. I have a friend who has liked me since we were 14. And I know that she still like me to this day and she still buy me presents on my birthday thou we seldom meet for the last 4 years(She's studying in Australia). She's a very hardworking, caring girl and I acknowledge all of that but I jus dun love her and will never go into a relationship with her. Even when she was in a relationship, she tells her boyfriend she still loved me. I dunno what I did to deserve all this, but I wish that never happened and I jus wish she have someone whom she truly loved and move on with life. My answer for you is guys are normally testotarone filled creatures, and if these testotarone filled creatures can say "I dun like you" I hope you understand what we mean. We jus dun want to hurt you.
2006-10-02 01:18:38 · answer #3 · answered by Rollercoaster 4 · 0⤊ 1⤋
No, its not worth waiting. Tomorrow start finding people that will compliment your life, making it easier and more fun and encourage you to do great things, those things don't happen with people on a pedestal
2006-10-01 23:56:46 · answer #4 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Every time I've loved someone, and they haven't felt the same, and I've waited.....that's all there ever was. Waiting. Love isn't something you should have to wait for. Try and find someone who loves you as much as you love them, and you will be a lot happier.
2006-10-01 23:56:28 · answer #5 · answered by Lily 2 · 0⤊ 1⤋
yes i have and i do right now , we do not know one another , we only see eachother in passing , all i know is he has a girlfriend and i know he likes me but i dont know if he loves me the way i love him and all i want to do to know him, so i wait and think of him alot and its okay to wait because if he doesnt want me maybe while i am waiting for him someone else will come along . its sad becaue i am alone but i dont want to tell him how i feel , so i keep it to myself or tell a friend and thats wha tyou can do unless you want to make a move ,like write him a letter or call him but if you dont want to do that its okay to wait it teaches you patience and love takes time to grow with whomever you are going to be inlove with .well i hope he opens up his eyes to you and i hope he loves you too one day.
2006-10-02 00:05:07 · answer #6 · answered by paszionone@sbcglobal.net 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
have you tried moving on? b/c if you haven't that would be the best first try for me. if you have and can't get over him i say try again, maybe the last person really wasn't that great. and if you still cannot get him out of your heart, then ask him if he will ever love you. and if he says no then forget him he wasn't worth it.
2006-10-01 23:58:15 · answer #7 · answered by confused 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
No, I couldn't love a person who didn't think I was so wonderful, he loved me too! I only want to love the people who love me back. Life's too short to waste it.
2006-10-01 23:54:35 · answer #8 · answered by Violet Pearl 7 · 0⤊ 1⤋
I've been in your position. DON'T WAIT.... get on with your life. Trust me. It may be hard but you can do it. Time is such a wonderful thing in these cases.
2006-10-01 23:55:04 · answer #9 · answered by Some Girl 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
NO, I CANT SAY THAT I HAVE, BUT IF HE DOES NOT FEEL
AS YOU DO, THEN YOU WILL BE WASTING YOUR TIME,
AND YOU MIGHT IN UP LOSING SOMETHING GREAT WITH'SOMEONE ELSE, WHILE YOU PINNING OVER SOME
ONE THAT WILL NEVER WANT THE SAME THING AS YOU DO,
SO MOVE ON.
2006-10-01 23:56:20 · answer #10 · answered by luckystar 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋