I don't know how this happened.
Two weeks ago I gave birth to a little girl named Crystania Elysa Maria. Beautiful name, not a beautiful baby.
You know how mothers are supposed to be blindly in love with their children and think they're the cutest babies ever?
No.
Mine is ugly. Her eyes are too small, her nose is huge, she's just so f&*king ugly.
I've been crying for the past 2 weeks.
I'm very attractive and so is my husband. I wanted to have a cute baby.
Nobody's going to stop me on the street and say "AW!"
Nobody is jealous.
I have an ugly *** baby, who will turn into an ugly *** teen and ugly *** adult and be made fun of forever/
How did I screw up so badly w/my first child?
2006-10-01 16:11:16 · 73 answers · asked by Anonymous in Family & Relationships ➔ Family
I gave birth to premies, sometimes a mom needs re assurance. I do suggest talking to your doctor about your possible post partum depression. and...
I'm sure you've met people before that blossom into truly beautiful people. Each week, you will see the beauty increase in your child as you continue to speak, express and show beauty to her.
Read uplifting literature, speak uplifting words, play music without profanity, violence, cheating and disaster. There are beautiful songs in every style of music. Choose wisely. Let it soak into your soul while you bond with your baby. With each word of praise the beauty in both of you will increase.
I not only did this but also posted photos of beautiful people around their cribs. Beauty became reality winning beauty pageants.
Pamper her with the best, including your uplifting words. Stay away from 50 pony tails in the hair, rather style the best for the best.
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2016-05-18 23:31:37 · answer #2 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Unlike some rude people who will call you a terrible mother, I am not going to do that. If you think your baby is ugly then so be it. There is really nothing you can do about it. The only thing you can do is wait it out. Sometimes the cutest little babies come out as the most god ugly thing you could ever see. If your daughter grows up being good and staying off drugs and all the other **** that is out there she will be one of the most beautiful girls in the world and will do many great things. You will be so proud of her you will just cry and you will love her like you never had before!
2006-10-01 16:15:54 · answer #3 · answered by Nickname 3 · 6⤊ 1⤋
Wow.
I really hope this is a joke question.
In case it's not, though, I must say this: I think most babies are ugly. Is that cruel? Maybe, but it's true. They're all red and wrinkled and squished.
However, when I look at one (even the really ugly ones) my heart breaks a little because they're just so perfect and innocent. Babies are so pure. They have no idea what terrible things go on in the world, and they're going to experience such awful pains in their life, and they're so tiny and just so completely unprepared for what's going to come at them.
I hope you can feel this for your baby. She might be ugly, but she is a person, and she's YOURS. She's a part of you, and you HAVE to protect her and cherish her, because no one else is going to.
Not to make assumptions, but it sounds like you might be suffering from post partum depression. If you've been crying for two weeks, please see a doctor and at least ask. You owe it to your little girl.
Don't ever tell her she's ugly. See her beauty, and make her see her beauty, because this world will beat her down enough as it is.
2006-10-02 01:51:23 · answer #4 · answered by Anonymous · 3⤊ 0⤋
When I look back at photos of our baby in her first few days, I can see now, objectively, that she looked a bit of a freak - part chimp, part alien. That's how new babies look. Their faces change completely as they grow, put on weight, and then as they cut teeth. She's now a bonny baby and people are always stopping us in shops and telling us how pretty she is.
At the time I thought she was beautiful, just because I was so happy to have her. But my wife was so overwhelmed with the whole process - the trauma of giving birth, the raging hormones afterwards, the burden of caring for this helpless creature - that she cried too. A LOT.
It's called the "baby blues", and it's completely natural, and in most people it settles down in a few weeks and doesn't turn into full-blown post partem depression. In your case it sounds as though it's affecting the process of you bonding with the baby - in a very small minority of mums this becomes a real issue - so it might be a good idea to go to your GP and ask for help, just in case. But for most people is DOES pass.
2006-10-01 17:05:15 · answer #5 · answered by gvih2g2 5 · 2⤊ 0⤋
You are such a liar. Looking at past questions are you 17, 19, or 20? Are you married or dating? Choosing between two guys 3 weeks ago or giving birth 2 weeks ago? Pretty, overweight, or tranny? I think you need a good role model and lots of positive attention. Maybe you're bored out of your mind and make up all this stuff to see what reaction you can get. If you REALLY DID have a baby, you spend too much time on the computer!!! Get off the computer and take CARE of that baby!!!!
2006-10-02 04:20:42 · answer #6 · answered by Anonymous · 7⤊ 0⤋
I have yet to see a genuinely pretty newborn, they all have huge heads, battered faces from being born, and rolling eyes and toothless gums don't exactly help. You know what though? They don't stay looking like that forever, and most of us don't feel that way about them, so what I'm thinking is this - you have a two week old baby, you have just been through a major event in your life, your hormones are all over, and you have a good ole dose of the baby blues.
Go see your doctor, see your midwife, see your health visitor, your mum, anyone who knows how it feels to be a new mum.
It IS going to get better, but you need a little help adjusting to being a mum first.
Chin up.
2006-10-02 02:43:15 · answer #7 · answered by Lynn S 3 · 3⤊ 0⤋
The most beautiful feature in a child is a sunny disposition, and a good and loving nature.
It's not going to happen with you as a mother is it?
The best thing you can give her is the ability to feel good about herself, that she has every right to be on this earth, and the confidence to strive forward no matter what is thrown at her by ignorance. Oh, and the feeling she is loved.
Now you know how it feels when people judge by looks. People like you.
2006-10-02 06:01:24 · answer #8 · answered by Thia 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Even though this is sad, everyone's entitled to their own opinions. Before I would consider doing anything drastic, stop and put yourself in your child's place. You didn't ask to be here, in now way is it your fault, and you are unique in your own way. Would that not hurt you to grow up without your mom because you weren't attractive enough for her. Every child is a blessing. I am 19 and I found out 4 months ago I was pregnant, this is not how I wanted to have my child, with just a high school education but I refused to give my child up. Now, if that brings no kind of remorse to you, go ahead, do as you feel, but don't do it if you'll look back and regret it.
2006-10-01 16:46:50 · answer #9 · answered by bre714 2 · 1⤊ 1⤋
oh my god i don't believe i have just read this **** ,what terrible things you are saying about your first child this is supposed to be a real happy time for you any way this is early days your baby is only 2 weeks old she will be changing every day,tell me you are only joking sweetheart there are people out there that cant have children for many different reason i know if they where to see this it would break there hearts you should be so thank flu yeah that shes a healthy baby girl ,i think you should get help,learn to love your baby its one off the BEST things a woman could have just because you say your attractive its like your baby ant up to your stander that's a real sad thing i bet shes really sweet and cute just a shame you think in this nasty way when so many couples would love to have what you've got a beautiful baby girl........
2006-10-02 02:17:29 · answer #10 · answered by skye 4 · 1⤊ 0⤋