My last baby died during labor. They do not know why. I want another someday but am afraid of going through this again. I always follow all advice from my doctor but want to know if there is anything additional that I can do to ease my mind in my next pregnancy. Do doctors do planned c sections in high risk pregnancy? Are there heart monitors that actually work at home? My last one did not. What else can I do so I do not go crazy with worry those 9 months?
2006-10-01 16:04:46 · 6 answers · asked by Carolee B 2 in Pregnancy & Parenting ➔ Other - Pregnancy & Parenting
There is a link I posted from Babies R Us , This is a Doppler I bought and used with 3 pregnancies , I know it is kinda expensive, but, I have 3 Happy healthy children, I once lost a baby also, I know how scary this can be...........I wish you the best of luck,
2006-10-01 16:16:44 · answer #1 · answered by crazy2have3kids 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
That is so incredibly sad and I know a very good friend who had this happen. It turned out later that there was a genetic reason but it really had to be searched out.
Labour is good for babies. It helps them to get out fluids and prepare their lungs for breathing outside of the womb. While some are necessary, realize that C-sections carry a price and the risks to mom and baby are much greater than a vaginal birth (in normal pregnancies and even some high risk).
You can rent dopplers and listen to your babies heart beat. I know that for some that is reassuring because if you get worried you can have a listen. I am sure your doctor will be compassionate about you coming in or going to get monitored if you feel fearful.
You did not say why you are considered a high risk pregnancy or when babies heart stopped during labor. Are they sure that baby did not pass away before labor?
I can tell you from experience that yes you will be scared throughout your pregnancy and birth but when you hold your next baby in your arms you will have a great feeling of healing.
Surround yourself with lots of support. Speak to an experienced doula or find a compassionate midwife who have worked with women that have lost babies. Arm yourself with positive knowledge and you will do great.
2006-10-01 23:15:10 · answer #2 · answered by Love Birth 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I lost my third at 2nd trimester, so I share your worry about trying again.
However, I had a low birthweight 1st baby (5 lbs at fullterm, no explanation), who ended up with low blood sugar at birth. Because of this higher risk, my next OB automatically scheduled more frequent ultrasounds with the 2nd baby.
You certainly have the option of a planned C section! This is especially true if your baby died during labor without explanation.
Probably the most important thing for you will be your relationship with your doctor. Before you start trying for another baby, take the time to interview doctors. It'll only cost you a co-payment per visit, and when you find the one you feel you can really trust it will be well worth the effort and cost.
2006-10-01 23:24:12 · answer #3 · answered by Lisa G 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Were there any chromosome tests done on your baby? You can talk to the doctor that delivered and the doctor that cared for your baby after it ( I don't want to say it, but you didn't mention what sex the baby was) was stillborn should be able to tell you the chances of this recurring. My second child was born with a chromosome abnormality. There is no explanation of why this happened. The doctors that care for her did tests on her, me, and her father. The chances of my having a baby with her problem were like 1 in 6 million. When I got pregnant with my third, I was still worried that it might happen again. I just had to have faith and hope. I love my daughter no matter what problems she has but it would be hard to have another to care for. My son was born healthy as a horse. I now have 4 foster kids with chromosome abnormalities and life wouldn't be the same without them. My best advice is just to have faith in whatever it is that you believe in and when your beutiful new baby arrives, live every minute trying as hard as you can to be the best that you can be.
2006-10-01 23:16:14 · answer #4 · answered by glitz_and_glitter 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
aww I am sorry to hear of your loss. yes they do do planned c section it is called elective cesarean If it is planned in advance, it is known as elective This means the reason for it is apparent that your pelvis is to small or you have high blood pressure, or of course your baby is in the breech position. Your obstetrician will probably discuss this with you two or three weeks before your due date, and a date will be set for you to come in, so you'll know well in advance exacltly when your baby is to be born. good luck to you and I hope this helped i got it out of a book i have here at home. they do this in canada not sure about the states or other countries take care.
2006-10-01 23:17:28 · answer #5 · answered by lynn 3 · 0⤊ 1⤋
All u have to do is listen to the doctor for something have to you.
2006-10-01 23:29:49 · answer #6 · answered by te'keyia 1 · 0⤊ 1⤋