I Need Help Finding a Girlfriend?

Question

I need help finding a girlfriend to have a relationship with.

When I was eighteen, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was nineteen, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-one, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-two, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-three, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-four, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-five, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-six, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-seven, I did not have a girlfriend.

I have a pretty active social life, which means I am not isolated. I have also read articles about David DeAngelo about inciting attraction in women.

I am asking for a comprehensive strategy in finding a girlfriend, from meeting women to inciting feelings of attraction to carrying out the relationship.

Answer 1

david D stuff is good. 77 laws of success with dating and women will teach you a lot of steps to making yourself more worthy and attractive to yourself, girls, and all people.

as far is i think what works is to remember your role as a man and learn the qualities a man should have, those are the things girls are attracted to.

also, have SELF RESPECT! by treating yourself and your stuff good it puts off a vibe that you will treat a girl and your future family good.

look at your own personal style and change it to make yourself look like you have a clue about what is hot in todays fashon trends which displays that you are "up" on current events and that you appriciate yourself enough to change as the world around you changes. this shows that your adapt easily which is an important quality to have if you want to keep up with the competition in todays world.

while speaking of competition, remember that todays world, especially for a young single MAN such as yourself, is all about competition, sadly enough the person that your flesh wants to be by sitting around and playing video games all day and always taking the easy road DOES NOT lead to success with women cus it displays that you are a wussy and that you are unwilling to leave your comfort zone even to better yourself, as a man you must display responsibility for yourself because one day you will be responsible for a family. your competition that displays that responsibility will beat you to the lady.

REMEMBER THIS: you can not change other people! you can only change yourself. you can not FORCE a girl to like you. you can not make other people change to adapt to your needs, you must change to meet theirs.

you should probably check out deep inner game by david D. i havent watched it but i saw prieviews and it seems to really teach self respect and self progress very well. i believe that these are the qualities that attract women. the stuff about pick up lines and how to be cool around women seems as a bunch of BS to me that probably only works on drunk girls in clubs and even then it is all a numbers game.

You must find the "game" that works for you. find your own style of talking to women. one you are comfortable with should be much more successful than one you try to mimic that you are uncomfortable with.

ALSO: this is the most difficult part, talking to girls. fear of rejection and failure is so hard to over come. if you have a problem with this YOU ARE NOT ALONE!!! i spend so many days a week (where i see a girl sitting alone or just passing by that i didn't talk to her) regretting that i did nothing. THE WORST THAT COULD HAVE HAPPENED is that i would have had a rejected or akward moment that i would forget about in a few minutes, LEARNING even in "failure" is so much better than wishing or dreaming. plus the next time i talked to a girl it would be easier and more natural. Nothing is worse than learning nothing and not even making an effort.

well, this is how i feel about this issue;
you must have self respect
you must pursue success for yourself
you must learn to talk to women in a way that you are comfortable
you must be a man because straight women are attracted to men.

Answer 2

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I Need Help Finding a Girlfriend?
I need help finding a girlfriend to have a relationship with.

When I was eighteen, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was nineteen, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty, I did not have a girlfriend.

When I was twenty-one, I did not have a girlfriend.

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Answer 3

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Answer 4

i think you need some serious help, because its really not that hard to get a girlfriend. Maybe its just you that the girls dont like, sorry im not trying to be mean.

Answer 5

Do you do the whole club thing?

Because when I go to the club, meeting a potential boyfriend or two is usually something I have in mind. And I'm pretty sure I'm not the only female who goes clubbing with this mindset.

If not, there's a good place to start. :)

Answer 6

Some man never get into a relationship because they like being around all type of women. maybe you are a player and do not know it.When the right one come along you will know.

Answer 7

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Answer 8

Check out a boyfriend instead.

Answer 9

Oh Oh! I know how this story ends!

You die alone.

Answer 10

use humor. make them laugh. and try askmen.com