my boyfriend is constantly asking me to buy him things and give him money, yet he constantly brags on how much money he has. it's time for me to call him out about this, what should I say without sounding too harsh?
2006-10-01 16:01:04 · 11 answers · asked by suga momma 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
I would just tell him the truth. If he has his own money it is time he spends it. Just explain to him that you need your money and do not wish to constantly be his sugar momma
2006-10-01 16:04:16 · answer #1 · answered by ? 5 · 1⤊ 0⤋
Quit spending your money on him and buying him things. You don't owe him diddly-squat and he is using you BIG time!
Tell him you do not have the money to spare, period. If he gets angry, lays a guilt trip on you, or heads out the door, then you know why he was hanging around you in the first place.
I wouldn't worry about sounding harsh, if I was you. I would worry far more about getting the point across that he can't use you like that any more.
2006-10-01 16:05:04 · answer #2 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Of coarse he is bragging about hom much money he has, he has yours...Do not buy him things, Do not give him money, let see how long he stays with you...He may have other sugarmamas on the side to....Dump him....Time to put your foot down...or in his assets....
2006-10-01 16:09:44 · answer #3 · answered by ABBYsMom 7 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Start asking him for money and expensive things, and let him see how he likes it. Hopefully he'll get the clue.
2006-10-01 16:04:22 · answer #4 · answered by Jenny Alice 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
First of all her is not really a Man to ask you for your hard eanred money when your not married. Second of all, your crazy to give it to him.
Wehn Man asks for money from his girlfriend, it shows that he cannot provide for her or himself.
2006-10-01 16:03:45 · answer #5 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
Ask him for things. He'll get the picture eventually
2006-10-01 16:05:47 · answer #6 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Don't give any money, you work hard to earn it. If he's got soo much of it then he shouldn't need yours
2006-10-01 16:03:07 · answer #7 · answered by bernie2u4 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
I would need to be harsh---shame on him!! Sounds like a mooch!
2006-10-01 16:06:51 · answer #8 · answered by CTMEDS 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
boy you got the monney to spend not me
2006-10-01 16:02:42 · answer #9 · answered by brit 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
im a female and i want things too, and their not cheap. so please understand im going to be buying what i want now and not always what you want
2006-10-01 16:04:56 · answer #10 · answered by Joanna Banana 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋