we went out 1 month but he broke up with me cuz he stopped loving me how do i get him back?
2006-10-01 15:58:23 · 14 answers · asked by chrisbaby5eva 1 in Family & Relationships ➔ Singles & Dating
he kinda asked me out again cuz he realized he couldnt live without me (duh)
should i say yeah?
2006-10-01 16:04:19 · update #1
Why would you want somebody that doesn't love you? You need to move on. Listen to a couple of blues songs and feel sorry for yourself for a day or two. When you are ready, go find another guy who really appreciates you.
2006-10-01 16:00:33 · answer #1 · answered by Ivan 5 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Maybe you shouldn't focus on how to get him back immediately. GIve yourself some time to think, and some space to breathe.
I mean, think about it. He can't commit to something and love someone for more than one month...do you really want to put yourself through that again if you got back together with him? He might dump you every month, and you'd get emotionally destroyed.
And is it worth getting someone back who doesn't love you? Why would you put yourself through more pain that you need to?
I think that you should think about it, take your time, go out with your friends, have some fun, get your work done, and then see how easy it is to look for someone else.
Time's a great healer. Give yourself some time and relaxation, but don't mope about and think about everything. You'll end up blaming yourself for everything, when nothing in the world can be divvied up into blame easily.
I think, when two people have a problem, it is one person's problem as well as the other's, and that there is a factor (or several factors) that have no person at fault...
Give yourself a break. You seem young...take your time to find someone who will value you and stand by you.
Good luck!
2006-10-01 16:08:18 · answer #2 · answered by 17unsolvedmysteries 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why would you want some one like him back? are you so desperate to display a boyfriend that you will take any one? Work on your self respect and self esteem, then may be look for a boy friend,. Also keep in mind the word boy friend. wouldn't you prefer a man who respects and cares about you, unless you are still a child yourself , and if that is the case get an education first.
2006-10-01 16:04:26 · answer #3 · answered by rkilburn410 6 · 0⤊ 0⤋
You don't want him back. You deserve to be with a guy that will love you and Lynden doesn't. You're better off without him. There are more fish in the sea.
2006-10-01 15:59:57 · answer #4 · answered by camping_girl 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If you only went out for 1 month and then he dumped you, I hardly think he loved you in the first place.
Why would you want someone back who treats you like that is beyond me. Get yourself some self-respect here!
2006-10-01 16:02:01 · answer #5 · answered by Road Warrior 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
bring your hottest girlfrind along and offer both of you get real you went out with a player and got played whty do woman always want the guy wholl never commit or be any good for them you know that nerd that loves you to much hes the man that will make you truly happy good job good income and will never cheat on you
2006-10-01 16:04:36 · answer #6 · answered by dpjrocheleau 2 · 0⤊ 0⤋
Why do you want to get back someone who decided after only 30 days that you weren't worth loving?
2006-10-01 16:01:09 · answer #7 · answered by Anonymous · 0⤊ 0⤋
You shouldn't try to get him back. If it didn't work then he is not meant for you. There are plenty of other guys out there. Take a look around and see for yourself.
2006-10-01 16:01:20 · answer #8 · answered by . 3 · 0⤊ 0⤋
if he doesn't want you please don't waiste your time pining over him.....you are worth so much more then that...wouldn't you want your daughter or another female you love to do the same, a girl shouldn't have to try to have a man love her or want her....it should be the other way around or it will just hurt
2006-10-01 16:04:14 · answer #9 · answered by harmonieclark 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋
If he stopped loving you getting him back won;t be good for you. if you try by doing nice things for him etc , he'll just use you for it or to get to your cute friends...because he doen;t love you anymore
2006-10-01 16:02:11 · answer #10 · answered by Foss 4 · 0⤊ 0⤋